im freakin out man

thisfreakingsucks · 12-12-2007, 09:04 AM

me? freakin out? i know crazy right.
well
me and my ex were hanging out and of course having sex. we were using condoms until one night he had the bright idea of using VCF well haha it didnt stay in ME it stuck to my FINGER...

..i did catch it and he put on a condom BUT... idk when precum comes around cuz i know that can inpregnant someone
im pretty sure it was a few days after my period i had been taking the pill but dont think i started again after my period
i haven had my period since then (i dont even remember exactly when that was im thinking end of october to mid november haha) wich isnt a big thing for me lol but i have had some light cramping almost all day everyday sometimes it does go away for a while its nothing to write home about but i can feel it..
do you think i could be pregnant??
when should i take a test since i dont really have a set week for my period to come?
i know i ask about this alot im just a spaz and im REALLY scared im gonna get knocked up.
dont worry we dont hang out anymore so we cant sleep together haha and if i do need to take a test uh how am i spose to tell my mom that? last time i called my grandma and asked her and i almost died.

etuc · 12-12-2007, 11:31 AM

You can buy tests easily at just about any drug, grocery or dollar store. Buy one to find out before you go freaking out your mom and grandma.

Good luck!

Ella831 · 12-12-2007, 11:37 AM

If your periods are not regular I am not sure when you should take a test. You could call your GYN office and just explain that your periods aren't regular you might be pregnant and ask them when you should take a test. I think you should be open with your mom but if you feel like you can't you can always go to a Pregnancy Care Center,not the one's that do abortions but they one's that are against it, they give free pregnancy tests.
Yes,you can get pregnant from precum,I have a girlfriend who did. My advice would be if you don't want to unexpectedly get pregnant stop fooling around with anyone. Even with condoms there is always a chance you could get pregnant so if you are not ready for that or wanting that to happen why are you taking the chance?

Jashobeam · 12-12-2007, 01:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Ella831

If your periods are not regular I am not sure when you should take a test. You could call your GYN office and just explain that your periods aren't regular you might be pregnant and ask them when you should take a test. I think you should be open with your mom but if you feel like you can't you can always go to a Pregnancy Care Center,not the one's that do abortions but they one's that are against it, they give free pregnancy tests.
Yes,you can get pregnant from precum,I have a girlfriend who did. My advice would be if you don't want to unexpectedly get pregnant stop fooling around with anyone. Even with condoms there is always a chance you could get pregnant so if you are not ready for that or wanting that to happen why are you taking the chance?

Yep, go to any Pregnancy Care Center and they will do the test for free, or go to a Dollar store and get one for $1. You can get PG even with your tubes tied, using BCPs or pretty much any other birth control except abstinance. There are pleanty of cysters on here who were using one or two methods at the same time and still got pregnant.

tattwo · 12-12-2007, 01:41 PM

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Originally Posted by thisfreakingsucks

me? freakin out? i know crazy right.
well
me and my ex were hanging out and of course having sex. we were using condoms until one night he had the bright idea of using VCF well haha it didnt stay in ME it stuck to my FINGER...

..i did catch it and he put on a condom BUT... idk when precum comes around cuz i know that can inpregnant someone
im pretty sure it was a few days after my period i had been taking the pill but dont think i started again after my period
i haven had my period since then (i dont even remember exactly when that was im thinking end of october to mid november haha) wich isnt a big thing for me lol but i have had some light cramping almost all day everyday sometimes it does go away for a while its nothing to write home about but i can feel it..
do you think i could be pregnant??
when should i take a test since i dont really have a set week for my period to come?
i know i ask about this alot im just a spaz and im REALLY scared im gonna get knocked up.
dont worry we dont hang out anymore so we cant sleep together haha and if i do need to take a test uh how am i spose to tell my mom that? last time i called my grandma and asked her and i almost died.

Go to the drug store and buy a pregnancy test. If its negative, I still go to the gyno to get check out - STD's.

MarianneUnfaithfull · 12-12-2007, 04:15 PM

Regardless of not knowing when your period is due, I'd still be inclined to get a test. At least then you'll know where you stand. Do it today!!!

Neena · 12-28-2007, 05:03 PM

A blood test from a doctor's office would probably be the most reliable, or a regular over-the-counter pregnancy test.

Saille · 12-28-2007, 05:47 PM

If you have a gynocologist then call and make an appointment to go have a pregnancy test and get tested for STD's. If you don't have a woman's doc then call planned parenthood or your local family planning clinic and make that appointment.

seats · 12-28-2007, 06:01 PM

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Originally Posted by MarianneUnfaithfull

Regardless of not knowing when your period is due, I'd still be inclined to get a test. At least then you'll know where you stand. Do it today!!!

i agree..

seats · 12-28-2007, 06:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Neena

A blood test from a doctor's office would probably be the most reliable, or a regular over-the-counter pregnancy test.

as far as i know all the over-the-counter pregnancy test are about the same. no matter where you get them.

debir · 12-28-2007, 06:04 PM