IM HAIRY ,, BUT HES NOT .. NOT FAIR

ROSAURA · 01-17-2003, 03:23 AM

I WAS DATING THIS GUY FOR 2 YRS.. HE ONCE NOTICED A LITTLE BIT MY HAIRS ON MY CHEST.. BUT THEY WERE SMALL ALSO A LITTLE BIT ON MY FACE...ON THE SIDE BUT IT WASNT WHEN THEY WERE FULLY GROWN.. I DO LASER MY TYPE IS CALLED MID LIGHT LASER I THINK. I DO THE TREATMENTS EVERY 13 WEEKS.. IN BETWEEN TREATMENTS I START GETTING VERY HAIRY AT ABOUT 11 WEEKS.. THATS WHY I ADD 2 MORE WEEKS TO GET ALL THE HAIRS.. SO I CAN (KILL IT ) WITH THE LASER..
SO GOING BACK. ME AND THIS GUY LIVED 1 HOUR AWAY FROM EACH OTHER.. AND OUR SCHEDULE WAS VERY TERRIBLE.. BUT WE MANAGED TO SEE EACH OTHER AS OFTEN AS POSSIBLE BUT EVERYTIME THE 11 WEEK WAS COMING I WOULD DO EVERYTHING TO AVOID SEEING HIM.. CANCELLING PLANS.. IF WE WERE TO PLAN A VACATION.. ID HAVE TO LOOK FIRST AT THE CALENDAR COUNT THE WEEKS AND SEE IF IT WAS "SAFE" TO GO...
IT REALLY RULES MY LIFE IN EVERY ASPECT..
SO EVERYTIME I WOULD SHAVE MY WHOLE BODY WHEN I WAS WITH HIM.. U KNOW WE GIRLS HAVE TO DO THIS..
SO THEN WE BROKE UP.. SO THEN I STARTED GETING LAZY. THERE IS NO MAN TO IMPRESS.. STARTED LETTING MY BODY HAIRS GROW BUT IM ALWAYS FAITHFUL TO MY LASER BUT ON MY FACE..
WE SAW EACH OTHER.. A FEW TIMES.. AFTER THE BRAKE UP.. STARTED BACK BUT SINCE I WAS SO LAZY WITH THE SHAVING I DIDNT LET HIM SEE ME NAKED.. BUT THEN I JUST FELL WEAK AND SINCE IT WAS DARK I THOUGHT IT WAS SAFE.. THATS WHEN I REALIZED MY BUTT WAS HAIRY..
I SAYED SOMETHING ABOUT BUTSS AND HE SAYED WELL YOU HAVE A HAIRY BUTT.. WHAT DO U DO SHAVE IT.. I SAYED YES.. AND I FELT LIKE DAMN MY SECRETS OUT, ALL THIS TIME HE NEVER KNEW AND KNOW AFTER WE BROKE UP AND GOT TOGETHER HE KNOWS..

THIS IS SO DEPRESSING MY HORMONES LEVEL IS OUT OF WACK.. IVE NEVER BEEN DIAGNOSED WITH THIS PCOS BUT I KNOW I HAVE IT.. MY TESTOSTERONE IS LIKE 118.. IVE BEEN TO THOSE ENDROCRONOLOGIST BUT IM NOT SURE IF I SHOULD TAKE THOSE PILLS (SPIRO )DO THEY RELIEVE THIS PROBLEM. I WANT TO KNOW GIRLS ALL THE SIDE EFFECTS IT HAS.. I DONT WANT TO TAKE MAJOR RISK WITH MY HEALTH.. LORD WILL THERE BE A CURE FOR THIS..
EVEN THOUGH NOW HE KNOWS ABOUT MY HAIRY BUTT SITUATIONS.. I DONT FEEL COMFORTABLE LETTING HIM KNOW ABOUT THE FACE.. THAT IS THE MOST SENSITIVE PART..
SOMETIMES I THINK THAT I DONT WANT TO GET MARRIED. BECAUSE WHERE WILL I HIDE ON THAT 11TH WEEK.. AND HOW WOULD THE GUY FEEL WAKING UP TO A HAIRY WOMAN.. AT LEAST WE CAN GO SHAVE TOGETHER. RIGHT##
AND WHAT REALLY GETS ME IS THAT..
HE IS A MAN AND IS NOT A HAIRY ONE..
US GIRLS SHOULDNT BE GOING THROUGH THIS ...

ANY COMMENTS I WILL APPRECIATE
GOD BLESS
PS SORRY SO LONG

Hezzer · 01-17-2003, 11:12 AM

I've been taking 100 mg of spiro for a month now. I was told it could take up to 3 or 4 months to see noticeable changes in the hair growth.

I've had no intolerable symptoms. Just some breast soreness and a little bit of spotting in between periods.

There's no harm in trying it. You can always stop taking it if you don't like it.

realtorjan · 01-17-2003, 11:12 AM

My dh isn't hairy at all... it drives me crazy. I sometimes wonder if the reason I am attracted to him so much is that he isn't hairy. I have always been grossed out by hairy men, and I think that's cause my hair grosses me out so much.

DH doesn't ever say anything about my hair. I guess he just accepts it and that's that.

JaimeVegas · 01-21-2003, 05:55 AM

I dated a Man for two years who happend to be 100% Apache Indian, we lived with his parents for the first year, (I was 17yo) And I would have to deal with looking at how hairless they all were and it drove me nutz! Native American men don't even have facial hair, and if they do it is VERY little. I also think I was attracted to him because he was hairless. I am now engaged to a 6'6" Hairy German Monster! LOL so I am the one with less hair in this duo! Thank God.