aliciay

hi my name is alicia im from rhode island i found out two months ago that i had pcos and i dont know what to do with myself. my main concern is that im only 21 and i want children and im so afraid i can never have them i have been with my boyfriend for two years now and we want children i go back to the doctors next week and plan on asking her some questions but i feel like im in denial that im not taking what i have serious enough not thats its not serious i just don't want to believe it when ever i talk about it i just cry.... i don't know what to do everyone says oh you will be fine its like no one gets it...that i might not have children i think thats my main concern im just depressed all the time and to top it all off i have no medical coverage so it makes it very difficult for me to seek the help i need im very glad i found this site i think it will help me deal with alot of stuff so thanks to whoever is listening...

megandmike2024

Hi!

I was in the same situation you are in years ago...I'm going to be 23 years old this December and I want a child just like you, but gotta stop saying it'll never happen because then it won't...being negative has never gotten anyone anywhere in life.

I used to be just like you and thought my life was going no where and kept putting it off and pretending I didn't have a problem and nothing was wrong with me. Don't let this happen you need to get on the ball right now...take the meds you need to...do what your Dr tells you and diet and exercise because it's so important...

I know you WILL have a child one day... you HAVE to believe that. I used to let the doubting voices into my head that said "What are you doing...why are you exercising you'll never have a child"...or..."Just go eat ice cream it'll make you feel better afterall you won't have a kid"...but I just suck it up and tell them to get the hell outta my head and I go exercise for 40-60mins and I feel better about myself! I'm proving all my family wrong they said I would never get pregnant...I did...sadly I lost it about eight weeks in but at least I proved them wrong... and please don't say your sorry...I'm not...of course I was upset but I proved to myself that it can and will happen...and now with taking Metformin and losing weight and balancing out what needs to be balanced I'm going to conceive and I couldn't be happier...

I don't think about what might not happen because we have excellent odds that it will...keep your head up...and if you ever need to talk let me know because I've been thru it all and I'm always there for a cyster!

Remeber every month you see a BFN you are one month closer to seeing that BFP!!! Good Luck! Baby Dust To You!

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Eva37

welcome to sc. I remember how stressed/scared i was when i first got dx with pcos. Thats why this site is so amazing, theres so much to learn and everyone is so friendly. All the best for your dr visit.
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Me - 42, hubby 37 son 12. Married 15 years

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