Yo, Soudoctor,
I am a born-again old Fashion Christian,so yeah I think the man should pay however I put the rant thread up there to find out WHY people are so upset with me who don't have that view. It is more a learning tool for myself, not to change minds.
This is a WOMEN DOMINIATED BOARD (and praise God for that!) So you get a healthy dose of estrogen here.
I in turn go to work and have to deal with too much testostorene (sp?) and it refreshing for me to come in here.
My point: don't let it get you down my dear fellow
PS: Congradulations to you and your bride to be!