No one has said anything, while i've been gearing myself up for the past month feeling completely depressed and totally reliving it all...and no one seems to think anything of it.
Aimee and Dana, i know daddy loves you and so does your brothers and sister...i know you picked out my booboo Logan from Heaven, but 5 years go by so fast, and yet i think of you every single day and not a minute goes by that you arent a part of our family...
Thinking of you all today, and my sweet baby girls.
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(*hugs*) Thinking of you all and your girls today.
Most people just don't think about it. And most times they don't know what to say or do. I bet many of them do remember, but they are just unsure of what to do. They probably don't realize that even just a phone call, a card, would be appreciated.
Your love for them, your remembering them, is what matters the most. So, don't let everyone else's silence bother you hun. Just remember and love your girls.
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"If you're going through hell, keep going." Winston Churchill
I'm sorry no one seemed to remember Kim. I'm in the same boat as you.
I find it especially hard because my loss and the birth of my oldest are only one calendar day appart. Each summer I go through such a rollercoaster of emotion. That day I just want to lay low at home and the very next day I'm expected to be up and about and happy (and I am for my oldest, but you know what I'm saying...).
If you want people to remember your girls with you, you might have to bring it up yourself unfortunately. It just isn't at the forefront of peoples' minds the way it is in the mother's. I think if you express that it is an important time for you, they'll surprise you with their support.
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Happy Birthday Aimee and Dana. Please keep watching over your family.
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well i knew i shouldnt have checked in here at work cuz now i'm snifflin at my desk
dh did redeem himself - i came home from my trip to replace my gold chain that i always wear my locket on( and keep the girls pictures in it) and found flowers and a card signed by all of them...saying they missed the girls too...
Aimee and Dana are so lucky to have so many aunties...thanks for being there...again!
okay i better go before i embarass myself
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Kim, I have to apologize for not remembering their/your special day. I have been a flaky mess lately and haven't even checked in here as often as usual. You know that I am with you in spirit all of the time, cysta. Passing these five years together has been a reward for surviving our tragedies, and I am so fortunate to have you as a friend! If I could trade it in for our girls, though, you know why I would. They are missed and they are important, whether the "rest of the world" doesn't remember like we do. (((Hugs))) and Happy Birthday to Aimee and Dana!
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Oh, Kim, I'm so sorry I didn't remember. My computer crashed last month, and I lost my reminder calendar. I feel awful, because you have always been such a source of strength to me through my grieving.
I am so sorry that you felt so alone on your sad day.
Its been 5 years, and no one remembered... 
They are missed and they are important, whether the "rest of the world" doesn't remember like we do. (((Hugs))) and Happy Birthday to Aimee and Dana!
