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Old 11-10-2004, 10:25 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Unhappy Just bad luck????

I had my d&c follow up appointment with my re yesterday. They ran labs on the placenta & fetal matter and the results were that there was no chromosonal problems with the baby. In my dr words chalk the loss up to "Just bad luck" .... No explainantion on why I mc. I thought luck was for Vegas not TTC!! I guess I will have to roll the dice my next IVF. Sorry for my mini rant.
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Old 11-10-2004, 11:00 AM   #2 (permalink)
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I'm sorry about your M/C. And the doctor seemed a bit insensitive to me with that comment. I had a dr say that to me too!! Then he went on to tell me that 1 in evry 4 pregnancies end in M/C. Well, thanks for being so understanding doc!!
I hope it goes well for you next time!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 11-10-2004, 11:01 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Rant away Honey!! they don't very often find a "reason" for this tragedy happening. It hugely sucks. Sending HUGS to ya & I hope your doing okay!
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Old 11-10-2004, 01:35 PM   #4 (permalink)
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I'm sorry there are so many of us unlucky moms around here.
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Old 11-10-2004, 02:03 PM   #5 (permalink)
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{{{{HUGS}}}} My RE told me that after the 3rd m/c & more of the RPL (repeat pg loss) testing... I went on to get pg a 4th time & had a 4th m/c...no bad luck here, there has got to be something wrong w/ me

Basically, they don't really do any RPL Testing after 1 m/c...unfortunately, they make you go through at least 2, maybe 3 m/c's before they'll even test. You could get the testing done now but it will be out of pocket b/c no ins. co. will ever pay for testing after 1 m/c...some don't even pay after 2 m/c's...only 3 m/c's.

Unfortunately, there is no explaination to why you m/c'd right now as there was really no testing done on you & DH...

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Old 11-10-2004, 09:34 PM   #6 (permalink)
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I am sorry about your loss. Doctors need to be more sensitive. Contact me if you wish.
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Old 11-10-2004, 10:01 PM   #7 (permalink)
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I am sorry for your loss. We went through two miscarriages before we were blessed with Colin. There is nothing wrong with being angry. It is frustrating I know. It is also not fair that we have to go through it. We are all hear to listen to you, if you need us.

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