We found out today that our baby's heart is not beating, I went to have an ultrasound and they said they could not detect a heart beat. I am at a loss for what to do now. We found out we were pregnant one moth ago today. So we had this little miricle in our life for such a short time! I do not want to talk to family or friends and really want to just go to bed, and not see or talk to anyone that I know. Does anyone know where I should go from here???
I'm so sorry Karynh. My heart is breaking for you. I can't tell you where to go from here. We all grieve in our own way. Talking to others who have experienced a loss helps some. Take the time to grieve and let us be your shoulder to cry on when you need one. If you need to talk you can always PM me.
Karyn-I am so sorry for your loss. I don't think anyone can tell you what to do or feel at this point. I just pray that you do what you have to do and get back on track of getting pg again. You know you can get pregnant, so keep trying my love. Babies should be in all our futures. As for the baby you are grieving for now, I can only think that something was wrong with it and so your body shut it down. You can and will have a healty baby. DOn't give up. Come talk to us every day if you are sad or whtever you are feeling. We are all here for you. I am truely sorry from the bottom of my heart. I wish I could give you a great big hug and kiss. I am sorry!!!
Thank you both so much, I am sitting here and I know it is okay to feel like this, but at the same time I wish it would go away. Thank you so much for the kind words, I know that this will be a time of great loss for my husband and both of our families, but i feel like this is something that I need to deal with, you know!
I am so sorry for your loss. My heart really goes out to you at this time. When you are ready to talk, please know that we are here for you. The women on this board, especially in this group, are just wonderful.
You take all the time you need to heal. Don't go by what others think you should feel. You do what helps you. Again, I am so sorry for your loss.
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Our sweet angel, Mohamed Matthew Raymon Illyas,
born and at rest on November 30, 2004.
Lived only 30 precious minutes...(IC at 20 weeks) Forever in our hearts, Together in our dreams.
We now live our life for you. We love you Matthew, our little Angel.
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I am so sorry about your loss ((hugs)) Go ahead and cry and sleep if you want. It's normal not to want to talk to your family and friends. Take your time to grieve your little one. Try not to make any major decisions at this time. Talk to your husband, hug him, and tell him you love him. Don't forget to take care of yourself. In time you'll feel a little bit better and will be able to move forward.
I just tried to go to bed, I turned off the computer and went upstairs, but I know I cannot sleep all I can do is cry, so I figure there is no point in trying to sleep right now. So here I am back again.....
Have you tried to talk to one of the cysters who have lost, and maybe get some comfort or advise, or anything you need? How is your SO doing? Are you gonna have a D&C or let it come naturally? Are you gonna TTC as soon as you can? Start planning for the future ta try and take your mind off it. I wish I could help you. I would sooooo meet you if I lived in OHio for a coffee. Big Hugs!!
we have decided to have a D&C, right now I do not feel like I could deal with it any other way. My hubby is doing okay, he is very sad, but trying to be strong for me. We are trying to try again when we are allowed, & hopefully I will be strong and stay positive!
It's better to go with a D&C. I had a miscarriage when I was 18, my BF at the time threw me down a fligt of stairs. Waiting it out for it to come on it's own can really hurt you more. Hang in there!!
Allright all I am gonna try this sleep thing again. WE will see how it goes if I end up back on here or not.Thanks you al for your kind words and encouragment!
Karynh, I am very sorry. I just had a m/c this past weekend, but i knew it was coming for weeks. Waiting for it was the hardest thing. If i had to do it again, I would have gone for the D&C. Plus for me, the natural m/c was very painful. I did not want to talk to my friends and family about this at first either, and coming here was a huge help for me. gradually, I began telling close friends and family and it made me feel not so alone. my heart goes out to you.
Karynh, I've never been through anything like this, but I can imagine it must be one of the hardest things to go trough.
There are some pretty strong ladies on this site who can help you a lot, I just want to send you a big ((((HUG)))) and hope that you are strong enought ot get throught this sad moment.
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