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Old 01-02-2007, 11:37 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I just found out that my little one died in utero about a week ago...

Right now I'm in shock, but I'm sure the pain will start sinking in soon. I was 9 1/2 weeks today, and the ultrasound showed no heartbeat and that the baby measured about 8 1/2 weeks.

So, I'm now waiting for the m/c to start..

I feel so empty right now..
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Old 01-02-2007, 11:44 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Oh Sherbear, I totally feel for you. I know exactly how you are feeling...I am right there with you.......sending you lots of hugs.....
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Old 01-03-2007, 12:12 AM   #3 (permalink)
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I am so sorry for your losses ***HUGS*** Your in my prayers.
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Old 01-03-2007, 12:35 AM   #4 (permalink)
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I'm so sorry! Many hugs to you and DH!
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Old 01-03-2007, 12:39 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Sherbear...I am sooo sorry..my heart just broke for you!PLEASE! get tested for Thrombophilia & DNA mutation MTHFR..this is a blood clotting disorder that causes miscarriage ( I have it)..if I had known this before this pregnancy I would not have lost my previous ones...
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Old 01-03-2007, 12:59 AM   #6 (permalink)
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I feel for you. I too lost my first little one @ 9 1/2 weeks on Thanksgiving. It is hard...talk to people who support you, cry, journal, walk, take care of you - it does help.
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Old 01-03-2007, 01:00 AM   #7 (permalink)
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I am so sorry for ur loss.. I am feeling your pain to as i missacaried yesterday. I am praying for you if you need anything let me know ok..
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Old 01-03-2007, 01:04 PM   #8 (permalink)
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It is hard...talk to people who support you, cry, journal, walk, take care of you - it does help.

I am so sorry for your loss. Remember to be patient with yourself.

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I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Remember that you're not alone and that we're all here to support you and listen.
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((((HUGS)))) Im so sorry for your loss.My prayers are with your family.
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Sher, I am soooooooooooooooooooo sorry for your loss. I just found your posting here. I wish I were there to give you a hug. I'm praying for you and DH.
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Old 01-03-2007, 05:39 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Thank you all SO much for your encouragement & support. It's very helpful right now.

I am going to insist on rpl testing when I see my doctor tomorrow. I am not going to wait for another one!

Right now, I'm trying to decide if I should let the m/c happen naturally, which could take forever, or have a D&C & get it over with.. Any advice?
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My prayers are with you. I just had my fourth m/c and fifth angel baby in November. I agree get the rpl testing done. I found out after my third one that I had MTHFR and was doing all the treatments but still m/c. Now I am doing more immunological testing. I wish I had done everything before.

Just my experience, but my last two m/c have been d&C in order to preserve tissue for testing (that way they knew the babies were o.k. chromosomally) and to get some closure and for me, they were far easier emotionally then the first two.

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I am so sorry for your loss.
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I just wanted to say how sorry i am for your loss...i dont get on here much anymore but its just disheartening to see so many new faces here...i send warm thoughts and well wishes to you all, and Sherbear...whatever you decide to do i wish you well

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