i think i'm the official electrolysis cheerleader here, but have you thought about trying it? my hair's the same as yours - blonde, soft, downy and i've never waxed it so it's virginal enough that i need only one zap over the area to get rid of it. unfortuntely new hairs can grow if your hormones aren't behaving themselves, which sucks, but an extra session a few times a month after the initial defuzzing isn't the end of the world if it means a hair free face.
are you thinking abouttrying spiro? my doc says it's a good idea for someone in the fuzz stages of hair growth. with the bc (oh, diane, how i love you) there's been a definite reduction in body hair. i'm reluctant to call success on my face as i'm having electrolysis there regularly and the facial hair reduction is really quite dramatic even at this early stage. one thing i would caution: electrolysis will ruin sensitive skin for a week or so after a session. absolutely infuriating for someone who'd happily go in for 2 hours a day every day until she was as hairless as one of those creepy cats.
i'm taking 1500mg of met, 150mg spiro and diane, for the record. i've also ordered some spearmint tea and will replace my usual jasmine with it - i'm willing to try anything at this point

the hair must be eliminated!