I was afraid your first post was in the "numb" phase and that we would hear back about the tears. Believe me, this is soooo normal. Feel free to talk to a grief counselor, but don't ever hold the grief in. If you don't process this now, it will wait and come back again and again. I still have tears and uncomfortable times five years after my loss, but it is so much easier now to get through the days! Please be very gentle to yourself and DH. The guys tend to do their grieving very differently and much slower. Saying goodbye to this little one and her twin is devastating, and don't let anyone tell you it's not. ((((Hugs)))) We'll be here to listen.
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First pregnancy ended at 23 weeks due to incompetent cervix. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. Mary Catherine will be in our hearts forever, November 28, 2003.
Second loss March 9, 2004 at five weeks
Third pregnancy, Cerclage at 13w To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. Duncan 2/11/05, 9lb 3oz
Fourth pregnancy, Cerclage at 13w To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. Ruby 2/27/06, 9lbs |