(((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))) so sorry for your loss i lost my lo very early on at the beginning of this month it will take time to heal be easy on yourself and treat yourself to somthing nice
kristie x
ps can i ask why they are doing a D&C? X
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me 27 df 40 getting married july
trying to control my weight
on citalopram for depression
mummy to an angel lost 3rd january 2009
SECOND BFP JAN 29 09 STICK BABY STICK!
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Pamper yourself! Seriously! Get in as much comfort food as you want and need and just give yourself a good pampering!
I'm so sorry for the loss. I managed to avoid a D/C with my first because I had to go somewhere the day they scheduled it (the next day in fact) and wouldn't be back for three days. On that third day, as I was supposed to be travelling home, I passed everything in one hellish 24 hours. It was.. well.. unpleasent.
As a result, I can't tell you what to expect with a D/C but as for what to do with yourself? Cry, Scream, hit things.. whatever makes you feel better frankly. There's no set way to deal with grief, and do expect to feel a lot of conflicting emotions. It's a whole big turmoil as we recover emotionally and physically. I wish you a speedy recovery and every sympathy.
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Cian David St. John - Born 13:33, 27th November 2006 at 36 weeks
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Getting a D/C based on my RE recommendation, she doesnt want anything cancerous to form and they want to test everything that is there to see what happened.
D/C was horrible, I cried during and the worst thing was before going in, the babys father was a complete jerk and wasnt helpful.
I agree with Purple. Pamper yourself! I'm also a huge reader and I got some books right after we lost our first. I could escape for a little bit at least and it would give me a different perspective.
I'm so sorry your baby's father is being so mean. Its NOT your fault, you did NOTHING wrong. Don't listen to him. I'll keep you in my prayers.
Thanks for the support, after tomorrow's appointment, I think I am going to a girlfriends house for the weekend, drinking yummy red wine ( before I restart Met and get cleared too) and enjoying myself with a bunch of friends from highschool.
i am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Just surround yourself with great friends and family to help you through this.
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Sorry for your loss. I just had a d&c on tues, my RE said w/twins it would just be less painful. He is wonderful and I am glad I did it, but the hospital experience was AWFUL, very little compassion, organization...I am just so glad it's over, but it sure didn't make the emotional part easier. I'm a nurse, I'm so used to treating the whole person--their emotional health too. I totally understand.
Take good care of you!
Loss at 5 weeks 
