i went for my 3rd us today at 7w1d-only to find no hear beat anymore-baby didnt grow afer 6w3d....had no cramps /spotting.....they want me to back on friday to confirm..........and after that , either d&c or misoprostol....
i feel so lost........my baby has gone........and i just dont know how to cope.........dont know what did it.......chromosomal abnormalities are most common cause for 1 trimester m/c.........but i dont even know if my probs with progesterone were also related , even though my lowest level was 15.....
so far things had looked good , the only concern was progesterone-so its even more difficult to come to terms with........i saw the hear beat last week.....which makes this so heartbreaking......i dont even feel like getting back to ttc any time soon.......i dont think i can take it emotionally......
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Oh Meggy, I'm so sorry. I had been following you because we both did clomid and both got our BFP's around the same time. Unfortunately, I lost my baby too and I've been heartbroken. My betas had been doubling and my p4 had risen to over 20 and I still miscarried so I've been feeling hopeless and searching out answers too. I had started bleeding last weekend and I went to the ER. They found a fetal pole and sac but no heartbeat and my betas had nosedived. I just had my D&C this morning, they are going to do a chromosome study on the fetal tissue. Will they be doing that for you? I'm really hoping that gives me some answers because I've already had all the repeat pregnancy loss testing and it all came out fine. Just know that you are not alone and we will get through this difficult time. You are in my prayers. ((Hugs))
im so sorry for u stacy.....yes we did seem to have almost identical bfp cycles....though i wish things had gone differently for both of us......but i guess what happens happens for a reason....ur baby boy will b ur solace in this time......and one day , u will have another healthy baby....
i dont know what they will plan for me....havent mentioned any chromosomal studies....im just too lost right now to think of these things.....
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I'm very sorry about your loss! The best thing at the moment is to be gentle to yourself and let those emotions flow. Grief is a lonely journey, but we are here to listen anytime. The moms here know how much a mother loves her sweet tiny one. Unfortunately many of us cysters have lost babies, some many times, and it is heartbreaking. Someday I hope there is more knowledge about the reasons so that there can be more prevention. (((Hugs)))
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Meggy,
The same thing just happened to me! I saw a strong h/b at 7 weeks and last night we went in to see that the baby had died. So I know exactly how you're feeling today (i can't stop crying... it's horrible) and I´m sending you a big hug!!!!
Kimmy
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thanx ladies.......i feel better today.......
im so sorry for u kimmyki....i dont know what else i can say, except that we got this far so there always hope for having a healthy baby one day...
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Meggy - I am so sorry. I am in the same situation as you. At 6 w 2d there was a heartbeat and everything looked good. I went back 2/28 at 7 w 5 d and the baby hasn't grown and they don't "think" there's a heartbeat. A small, slow flutter, but they think it's my heartbeat and it's really slow to be the baby's. I have to go back in a week to confirm. I was spotting for 3 weeks up until I found this out on Friday. Now, no spotting or cramping. I hate wondering - is the baby gone? Am I going to miscarry on my own? This sucks!
im sorry for u chrisy......i had the exact same thing......they saw a faint beat which the doc checked with my pulse and said was my own hb.......
anyway , its been a good number of day-no spotting yet-cramps off and on....but im waiting for a natural expulsion........
time does take the edge off the pain....i feel much more at peace now......i pray the same for u...
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I also seen my babies heartbeat at 6 weeks. i spotted and went back to dr. at 7 weeks my baby was gone. it was devastating. when i got back into the car i was yelling at God for a reason. This is my 3rd loss and usually they are all at time same time. i am terrieifed to try again. it has only been a week since my d&c. My body still is getting used to fact that i am not pg anymore. i could just scream........ u are inmy thoughts and prayers.
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I am so incredibly sorry to hear that news......I have no words of comfort but to surround yourself with people who care about you to get you through this heart wrenching time.
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