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Old 10-21-2005, 05:03 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Unhappy March of Dimes (my last rant, I promise)

I'm done with them. I'll keep doing WalkAmerica, but they obviously don't want me to volunteer. Apparently my letter only lit a temporary fire under somebody's butt. I went to that dinner WEEKS ago, and I got a call the following week from the local coordinator (A). A said that she had some things she wanted to discuss with me about the ceremony. I sent A an e-mail with ALL of my numbers (including cell, which she didn't have) and I left her voice messages on her cell and at work.

It's been two weeks, and I haven't heard anything. Prematurity Awareness Day is in 24 days. There's no way they're just now trying to organize this with the hospital, which means she did it without me after blowing smoke up my butt about how important Rivi's story is. Sigh...
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Old 10-21-2005, 05:08 PM   #2 (permalink)
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That is very disappointing, Viv. They let a potential volunteer get away! It's such a shame. I'm sighing with you.
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Old 10-21-2005, 05:13 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Very disappointing.


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Old 10-21-2005, 05:20 PM   #4 (permalink)
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I can't understand what's wrong with them. I'm sorry, Viv.
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Old 10-21-2005, 05:52 PM   #5 (permalink)
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How disappointing I'm sorry that they are being such idiots.
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Old 10-21-2005, 06:29 PM   #6 (permalink)
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I would write another letter telling them you are done, that your story is important and they act you they coudl care less. I am sorry you are being treated this way.
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Old 10-21-2005, 06:35 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Viv, they are a bunch of fools to let someone who wants to be so active get away. They do NOT deserve your time and energy! I'm sorry, though, because I know you really want to give it to them.
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Old 10-21-2005, 06:46 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Thanks, everyone. I'm just disappointed because they're the only group around here that deals with prematurity awareness/loss issues. SHARE isn't active here, and there's no one else, either.

I have to go back to the drawing board, I guess. I refuse NOT to let Rivi's story make a difference somehow.
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Old 10-21-2005, 07:18 PM   #9 (permalink)
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I wonder what it would take to start a SHARE chapter in the greater DC / MD area?
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Old 10-23-2005, 05:41 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Viv I still wouldn't give up. Maybe contact your local paper or news station? Let them KNOW how they treated you. Maybe you can still get Rivi's story out and make a difference!

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Viv I still wouldn't give up. Maybe contact your local paper or news station? Let them KNOW how they treated you. Maybe you can still get Rivi's story out and make a difference!
I agree with Roxie here. That's a great idea.

It's a shame that they treated you like that. Rivi's story does matter, and hun, it has made a difference. There are many women here that you and Rivi have helped. Myself included.
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Rivi's story does matter, and hun, it has made a difference. There are many women here that you and Rivi have helped. Myself included.
Me too!
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Old 10-25-2005, 06:52 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Viv - here is a link about starting a local SHARE group -

http://www.nationalshareoffice.com/resources_start_share_group.shtml
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Old 10-26-2005, 12:10 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Thanks, Meghan! I'm going to check that out.

The MOD lady sent me an e-mail saying that she's not getting anywhere with the hospital about the service we wanted to hold there. So NOW she wants me to step in, since Rivi was born/died there. Annoying! I will call her back, since awareness is more important than her stupidity, but I don't think I'll be doing much else for them.

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