i love my BF but i lust after women. strange right? I love him and will love hugging him and stuff but I dont want to have sex with him. I dont "want him". I dont want to hug girls but i do "want them". whats wrong with me ??
*sits on the edge of the beach* The water's fine! Jump in!!
TEST THE WATER OUT! I did and am very glad that I did. I don't mind kissing and hugging guys but that is all that I want. I love girls!
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sex is not a toy, or just a ride at a theme park. sex comes after you date and get to know a person and love them. when you think about girls it is just that, lust.
you can try sex with a girl but that will not fulfill you either if all it is is sex. i see sex as an activity that you do when you are completely in love and trusting of someone, and you want to get to know them on a completely new level, on the top level.
that's just it... after sex you have given every last bit to a person. I don't recommend you just jumping in the water. because you can not turn back. i may be old fashioned but that's why i believe in waiting to have sex until marriage. because if you have sex with the man you are going to marry and that is the only one you have sex with than sex is an intimate thing shared completely and only between you two, no one else to intrude in that special area.
so don't jump into having sex with girls. maybe try going out with them. see if you have a lot in common to talk about. see if you enjoy just hugging a girl.
I would never treat sex as a toy and I am not incenuating that she do that.
I was in the same situation and decided I would test it and see if I liked it. I still hug and kiss on some guys and don't mind snuggling up with them and such. That is as far as I plan on going with a guy.
I love my girlfriend and we are like 5 days from out 2 year anniversary!
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I lust and want men sexually, but I would rather be close and intimate with a women. I don't want a relationship with a man and I don't seem to care about them as much. I only want men for sex sometimes and I would rather kiss and hug a woman. So I guess I feel the exact opposite from you. I wonder why I am the way I am. It could be from my upbringing I guess.
Ive always thought i was straight and have had, and still want, feelings and sexual intimacy with guys, but just lately i think i am falling for a girl. Ive known her for just over a year and just lately we have grown very close. I love being with her, she makes me smile no matter how down i am about my life. She has got me through some difficult times latley and i will always turn to her. We text all day, just to let eachother know how we are and wat we are up to. We have shared some very passionate moments and i liked it. Id never really thought about girls 'that way' until we got close. But i knew she liked me? Do i love her? Am i bisexual? Should i continue doing wat im doing? I dont feel i can discuss this with anyone so a little advice or just an opinion would be appreciated!! x x x x x x x x x x x x x
Life is not worth Living if U cant make ur Loved Ones Smile
maybe u guys can answer this for me? 
