You're not being rude at all, you're just frustrated. I'm frustrated right now too, because I found out only one ovary is showing polycystic, and I have loads of other symptoms yet my blood tests are all normal, even insulin resistance. It's possible that I don't even have PCOS, but something else, who knows what.
So I can totally understand the frustration. I've only just heard of PCOS about 4 weeks ago and have read a lot about it since then. Read all you can and you'll get a much better understanding of what's going on. I'm reading the book
PCOS, the hidden epidemic" your local library may carry it. I've been reading most of the topics on this board like mad too. So much information!
Just hang in there and read up as much as you can until your blood tests come back, then you can go from there. I know how hard it is to wait, in fact I just found out I need to have another ultrasound done, but I just missed it for my cycle this month and have to wait yet another month. What a pain!
Hang in there, girl! Let us know what you find out from the tests!

<------ hug 4 you