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Old 08-04-2006, 02:28 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Well, it looks like miscarriage #2 is about to happen.

I started spotting today and went to have an u/s. There was a baby and sac, no heartbeat. We thought it might be too early for the h/b, so my doctor ran another BETA. He just called and my numbers are less than 2000. I'll have them taken again on Saturday, but it's not looking good. Ironically, I've stopped spotting for now. I'll know more on Monday I guess?
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Oh, Mindi, I'm thinking of you! (((Hugs))) Keep us posted and I'm wishing you the best! We are all here if you need us.
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Old 08-04-2006, 04:08 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Mindi, I am so sorry to hear this. I'm trying so hard to hold out hope. : I am so sad for you and DH and Barney right now. I will look for your updates.
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Old 08-04-2006, 05:07 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Oh Mindi
I am going to be optimistic until we know for sure. I hope all goes well. You and Mark are in my prayers!
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Old 08-04-2006, 05:30 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Sorry sweetie, I am praying for you that all will turn out ok... ***HUGS***
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Old 08-04-2006, 05:53 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Oh Mindi (((hugs))) *sigh*

No matter what happens, bear in mind that we're here to support you. Keep us posted, ok?
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Old 08-04-2006, 06:25 AM   #9 (permalink)
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I'm so sorry Mindi, you're in my thoughts and prayers.
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Mindi- (((HUGS))) to you hun! I will say a little prayer for you hun!
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Old 08-04-2006, 07:13 AM   #11 (permalink)
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I am so sorry, Mindi. My heart aches for you. I will be praying for you.

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Oh Mindi, I'm so sorry to hear this.....I'm praying for you sweetie! Let me know if you need to talk, ok? Take care of yourself, I love ya girl!!!

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Old 08-04-2006, 01:46 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Oh Mindi, I'm so sorry, it's just not fair....You, dh and your sweet baby will be in my prayers today.
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Old 08-04-2006, 04:06 PM   #15 (permalink)
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Thanks you guys.

I really don't know what to think at this point.

I spotted a couple times yesterday, the doctor saw blood on my cervix. He also said that things looked good, the baby was measuring a little too early to get a h/b (only 5 weeks 6 days), but my cervix was closed and the shape of things looked good. And then my horrid BETA numbers. I doubt there's any hope.

I'm not spotting today, my boobs still hurt, I still had to get up to pee a zillion times last night. But there cannot be a viable pregnancy with BETA numbers like that, right?

It sounds horrible, but this time just seems a little easier than Daniel. It's almost like I was waiting for this to happen. Daniel's was a fully formed, second trimester baby.

We've decided if I am miscarrying, we're going to take a couple months off and get me more together physically and mentally. All this constant worrying cannot be good for me or our future child. In the meantime, we have two different children (one in Texas and one here in MN) that we're looking into adoption with....so that alone will keep us busy!
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