I found out by u/s on Friday that I had had a missed miscarriage. I had a D&C yesterday. It went very well. Hardly any bleeding and just a little cramping today. I had a feeling since the day I found out that I was pregnant that I would miscarry. However, I never had any spotting or bleeding. Still, the feeling never went away. I have been doing ok. I thought I would be better after the D&C, but today has been really rough emotionally. I think it finally hit me that it is over and the baby is really gone. It has been so much harder than I ever thought it would. I know it will get easier with every day. Thank you all so much for listening to me. I just really needed to get some of it out. And writing about it and hearing other people's stories has been such good therapy for me. Thank you so much!!! Nicole
Nicole,
I know exactly what you are going through. I am sorry. I had a missed miscarriage last December and also had a D&C. Please take care of yourself, and I will be praying for you and DH.
Kim
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1st mc 12/02
2nd mc 4/03
Nicole, I am so sorry for you loss. I found out one month ago at my 9wk u/s that I had had a missed m/c. I had to wait almost a week for a D&C and after the D&C I bled for almost 3 weeks. It is still very hard emotionally on me and everyone around here thinks that I should just let it go and not be so upset. They don't understand that I had a living baby in me and now I don't. Just take it easy and if someone tells you to get over it, just ignore them. You take all the time in the world you need to to heal emotionally. It does help alot to write about it.
{{{{HUGS}}}}
Traci
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I'm so sorry Honey. I found out on Monday that my baby was dead at 8w. They've given me 10 days to m/c on my own before I have to have a D&C. I guess all I can offer is my sincerest condolences. This is truly the hardest thing I've ever faced. I'm sure I'm not alone. Be gentle w/ yourself and know that we care.
Missed Miscarriage 
