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Old 03-01-2009, 03:17 PM   #1 (permalink)
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We are a thread of women who have lost our Precious Babies for one reason or another....we all come here to support each other and lend an ear when needed. Some of our beautiful women come to update us on their TTC activities and some of us are on TTC Break, but all of us are trying to deal with the losses of our Angels! ALL ARE WELCOME!!
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Hey Ladies,

Just wanted to get the new thread up...Where is everyone??
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Hi ladies. I'd love to join in. Last Thursday I found out I had my second miscarriage at 9 weeks. It has been a rough weekend physically and emotionally. Now I'm on a journey to try and find some answers as to why this keeps happening.

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Welcome Melissa, I am so sorry about your loss of your lil one. Hopefully you can find something out on why you keep losing your little angels. Habe you had any testing done?
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Hi Adrianne. thanks for the welcome. I haven't had any testing done but am planning to see a hematologist that specializes in recurring m/cs so I'm sure he'll test for clotting, autoimmune and thyroid disorders. I also want to get a hysteroscopy. Want to get every test I possibly can. Anything else I'm missing? My RE says it's likely they'll all come back normal. He says it could possibly be the embryo quality and the only way to control that would be to do IVF. I'm just afraid of going through the expense (emotionally and financially) of IVF only to miscarry again.
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I'm here just swamped with school and leaving for a vacation in 2wks. Thanks for all the congrats!

Sassy, oh no! I'm so sorry to hear that you lost your little one! How did I miss that on the other thread?! I hope that you are able to get some answers. ((HUGS)) and healing to you!

Adrianne, thanks for the new thread and wishing you much success in this ttc cycle!
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Melissa--I hope that you can get the answers that you need. I can understand what you mean about IVF and being scared to m/c after all of that.

Niki--Time is really moving. I am so happy for you and Josh. Pretty soon you will be holding that lil one!
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Hey ladies!

melissa...welcome. You will find a great group of ladies here on this thread. I think you are headed in the right direction with the testing. I've had a hysterocopy also. I didn't think it was uncomfortable or anything like that. I had a polyp removed in Dec. I pray that you find some answers. Keep asking until you are satisfied.

niki...How did I miss the announcement? CONGRATULATIONS! That is awesome! Are you all just excited beyond words?

adrianne..thanks for the new thread!

AFM..I have 4 classes till spring break! YES! I'm headed to the hairdresser I used 5+ years ago...doesn't sound like much but believe me...I need to see him! How is everyone else doing?
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Adrianne thanks for the new thread and good luck!!!

Melissa- I'm so sorry for your loss, I hope you find some answers. I know how frustrating it is to not know why.

Niki- I have my fingers crossed for you!

Felicia- I know what you mean about the hairdresser, I'm going next week to get a cut... I've been doing my own for almost 15 years lol. It was a huge disaster so I'm really nervous. What are you having done?


AFM- We had our 24 wk scan and all is well. The tech said it looked like the placenta moved, but ultimately that is up to the radiologist to decide.. her heart is fine, she is measuring a week and a half ahead weighing 1 lb 11 oz and my cervix is 6.05. I guess I can breath easy for a while longer lol. Blood pressure is averaging 98/72 so I guess for the first time a pregnancy is moving along normally, who would have guessed. DH is getting a vasectomy this month, and even though he wants to get it done he's being a big baby about it... Men. 4 more weeks and we are off for vacation, I can hardly wait! Hope you all have a lovely week!
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Adrianne good luck for your new ttc cycle

Melissa I'm so sorry for your loss

Niki glad to see everything is progressing nicely with K, I hope you have a great holiday

Felicia I managed to get mine coloured, but no time for a cut

Montanamama glad to hear everything is going well with you and baby.

AFM I have an induction date set for 11th March, I'll be 38 weeks, I certainly never expected to get this far but all is going well. My OB was so sweet this morning, he was there when we had the twins and wants to deliver this little man, he says he knows just how special he is to us
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Kristina--I am so glad that things are moving along normally. This is one lucky girl!

Hela-- I think he should be induced on March 9th but I'm biased that's my bday! Time sure does move fast. I can't wait to see pictures of this special lil man!

I hope this post finds everyone well.

Suzi--you and family are still in my prayers!
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Hello everybody.

Melissa, so sorry about losing your little baby. I pray that the answers you need will come soon.

Hela, how exciting! Congrats!

Kristina, good to know your U/S went well. That is always a great feeling.

Biogal, hope K and baby continue to do well.

Adrianne, thanks for the new thread and especially for praying for us!

Felicia,how's the hair cut?

Hi to anyone I missed. I have had one busy week (doctors appointments every day with one of the two girls). Today was Elisa, tomorrow is Eliana. She gets her contacts fitted tomorrow. Both the lil girls have nasty colds but otherwise are doing OK. Hope everyone is well.
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Hi Ladies, just checking in.

Suzi - glad to hear everything is okay. Post pics of the girls if you get the chance.

Hela - not much longer!

Melissa - I'm so sorry for your loss.

AFM, just nervous about my big u/s thursday. I just want to hear that everything looks okay.
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Hi, I'm here. Things are getting a little easier day by day, but it can still hit me like a brick and bring me to tears over the littlest things... I am off to see my regular dr today to check my blood pressure and go over a few things - I don't think she knows I m/c yet, so that will not be fun having to go over the details...

Meliss - welcome, i'm glad you found this thread. i hope the tests give you some answers to the horrible mystery that seems to go with m/c - I think if i could find some answers to my questions, I would be a little more at peace with it, but I keep questioning myself and my actions, was it this thing I did, or that thing, or should I have been doing this or that?? Unfortunately, I don't think I will ever get any answers, as they don't really go through hormone tests/bloodwork etc after m/c here in Oz it seems, or so far they haven't offered to do anything like that. I hope they do find the cause for you so it can be prevented next time. Hugs xx.

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