Rusalka....I got a negative on the HPT and a positive on the blood test...and when the nurse called to tell me I was so stupid to ask her "what does it mean..?!?!.."...believe me she was stunned for a few seconds...
Inshallah all the best...Looking forward to hear back from you...
Sarahsmom....I am sorry that you have to go through a rough patch...we all do, I think...
I hope the cake made things better...:-)
Its true at times its really hard to forgot someon'es words and especially if they come from the one you love the most...
Things were rough at my end in teh start of my pregnancy and I really used to think that what am I bringing a child into...and most disturbingly it was not our issue..it was from his family's side which disrupted everything in my house...
I dont know if things really did get better or I just compromised to try to enjoy this blessed period of my life...All I can do is pray and hope for myself and others that Allah swt bless us,our homes and families with health,happiness and peace....Ameen...
Someone told me recently to recite Surah Jumma'ah,5 times a day(its in teh 28th juz) ...it is meant to make things better amongst spouses...
I have been reading it and things have gotten better....Ah
Hope it can help you....*hugz*
Hope rest of you are doing well...Best wishes for all...
XX
Wa'asalam...
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Rusalka....*hugz*
I am sorry...but Inshallah it will happen for you when the time is right....
We all know how frustrating it can be but there are so many sisters here who have great stories of hope to tell..Inshallah,just hang in there and pray and Allah swt will bless you soon....
*hugz again*
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AFM...I jinxed myself...
Just yesterday night I was thinking that the weekend has been going good...after so many weeks....
But this afternoon it all started again...
I am fed up with the inlaws issues...
I fail to understand why the DH cant see what the issue is....and even though he knows them all better than I do,he still is making decisions that will ruin our marriage for good....
I havent studied a word for the exam in 2 days and I have a terrible headache...
Sorry I know this is not the place for this stuff but I am just tired of it all...
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Rusalka, GreensMe: Please don't be start. Insha Allah it will happen soon.
Chips6: Please focus on yourself, the baby and your exam. Everything else will fall into place. Your DH is just going through a phase the less you say the better for you, he will come around insha Allah. Just keep praying for your marriage and continue to be a good wife. May Allah reward your patience.
Salaam everyone!
I was browsing the web when I came across this website and thought I should register, because it's so nice to see all of the sisters on here helping each other out.
So basically salaam everyone!
Chips this is a phase you and DH are going through.It will pass. Please try and switch off your problems and concentrate on your exams. They are important for the future when the problems fade away. Make dua for strength.
Wasalam NHA!
SarahsMom where are you?! I am a little worried, hope the cake did the trick, InshaAllah
rusalka- i'll be praying for you..nothing is impossible..keep your faith!
sarahsmom- i'm sorry about how you feel, plz forgive him...i am not excusing what he did but i know that i say a lot to DH when I am angry and I don't mean it and I regret it later, people have diff ways of handling things. Even if your DH says he doesn't care abt TTC maybe he's still depressed abt his issue? I know it's hard inshallah time will heal all.
AFM-- I don't know whats wrong with me, I feel soo overwhelmed right now. With work, then coming home and taking care of the house and cooking. I feel stressed, and a baby on the way. I'm just getting more tired as I get bigger. We're also looking for a bigger house and trying to sell ours in this horrible market. Ladies, plz keep us in your prayers
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GreenSme and BundleofJoy....thanks for your kind words...they mean a lot....
I just got back from the doctor's office.the regular visit...got to hear the heartbeat...AH it was good...
A quick question to mommies-to-be....Did you guys get or are planning on getting the H1N1 vaccine...??
She gave me a consent form ...I am still not sure if I want it so I said I will give her a call in a day or so and let her know...
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Wow...I hate this laptop. I just spent twenty minutes on a post only to have it shut down Explorer before I posted it. ARgghhhhhhhh.....................I have to go now..I'm fine..I'll post an update later on because I have to go get Sarah now. I'm thinking of throwing this thing out the window......
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chips- allhamdulilah..how exciting! can't believe you're almost 16 weeks!!
how are you feeling?
you know i dont think i am gonna get the h1n1 shot..only bc it's so new, it hasn't been tested i just don't feel right taking it while being pregnant, just my personal feeling =)
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Just wanted to introduce myself...it's so nice to interact with other Muslims with PCOS.
I've been ttc for almost two years now and just this month finished all my workup. My hormones are normal, alhumdulillah and my HSG revealed one open tube and one that might be blocked...my husband got his SA last week so I still need to call and find out about the results. A few months ago his count was quite low.
My doctor has talked to me about IUI and then moving on to IVF if that doesn't work.
Duas for all!
__________________ I'm 28 and ttc #1.
Symptoms: Alopecia, acne, hirsutism, slight weight gain, and possibly anovulation.
Girls I am as confused as ever .... and now I am nervous too
Last week the doctor asked me to get some blood tests done, the tests are due it tomm or so. I am so worried. Also she asked me to get DH tested. I never wanted to do all this, I just wanted a baby. Maybe I am being a baby, and I guess I should be all grown-up and sensible about how this is good for me. Oh dear here I go .... sorry for venting here.
Then I told the doctor that in a fit of grunpiness, I stopped taking metformin, I thought she would ask me to start taking it again, but she actually felt it was a good thing I stopped taking it, she said doctors in the UK do not prescribe it anymore! She asked me to take folic acid?
And AF flo is still not here, I have missed two cycles now (is this because I stopped the metformin?). And like other ocassions when AF was delayed, I feel bloated, nauseaous, and generally grumpy! And yeah THE test was negative. Now I am getting cynical.
And I have way too much work to do! My PhD is great work, I love it and it is a blessing from Allah that I have been given this opportunity (full funded too). The young Muslimah I have spoken too are all amazing women. Actually you know what my PhD cheers me up! But yeah I feel tired and stressed out trying manage all my house work, my research and other things that I must do. There is so much writing I must complete and other ends to tie up and papers to write. I intended to work a lot today but went back to bed after sending off DH to work, just got up 30mins ago ... I don't like these low energy levels at all. I wonder if doctor will be able to help? hmmm
Girls, sorry for this terribly grumpy rant .... Thank you for being there.
Actually come to think of it Allahu Alim. I am sure He will give me, and everybody else here, babies galore, InshaAllahtaala, Ameen.
Be kind to yourself sis! 
