Zainab, so sorry to hear your sad news. InshaAllah they'll be forgiven and blessed with jannah, they passed away in these holy months, right before Ramadan. You're in my prayers sister.
Wantababy, how did you do with your week-12 appointment? I'm not sure when is the right time to tell people about your pregnancy. My mom didn't tell anyone until they figured it out themselves while she was preggo with my little sister. She wore loose clothes, didn't really show until she was 6-7 months pregnant. I think all this was because that was her third child and she was scared of social pressure. It's kind of socially dissapproved to have more than two kids here in Turkey. They think only uneducated, ignorant people have more than two kids, so annoying and stupid! BTW, my dream was/is to have 4 kids inshaAllah

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