Chips - I am glad you have the support of your whole family just in time for your IVF journey - inshallah everything will work out..Allah is the greatest the all knowing and inshallah he does what is best for us all...my duas are with you sister...
Wantababy - I think we posted at the same time..like I said previously I dont know what that means but hopefully everything will be ok..inshallah this is just a anomoly and your numbers will go up..have you made an appointment with the GP or specialist?
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Married July 2006
Dgnsd 1999 ish
No treatment or medictions at the mo.
'Bare the trials and tribulations for today for tommorrow is another day.'
assalam alaikum sisters. Im new here and was looking around and am very happy to have found you! i was diagnosed when i was 19 after i got married and was hit by a double whammy, my husband had problems too!!! He was in denial, still is sometimes, but alhamdulillah we have been blessed with 2 boys now aged 6 and 10. im now trying for my third, hopefully a girl. In the past chlomid didnt work for me and i refused ivf. what did work was my faith in Allah. I told myself that whatever was in my destiny was in Allahs hands and if i was destined to have a family i would. I stopped stressing and relaxed. They say chlomid can have a delayed effect and stress can have a negative impact, who knows! I read some duas that help women with fertility problems too. So everyone dont give up hope, Allah knows best.
Salam everyone! How are you? I have a little more time today. First, Wantababy, don't worry!!! Stress is not good right now. What did the doctor say? Don't self-diagnose because you can go crazy. I've spent many hours looking up a little bump on my arm online. It can be anything from cancer to an ingrown hair. Don't DON'T self-diagnose or add undue stress on you and the baby. What has the doctor said?
Zainab- Inshallah your appointment goes well. I'm glad you are out of your depression.
As for me (I'm sorry I know I"m wayyyy behind on posts....please don't kill me! :^) Sarah is doing wonderful. We took her in the hospital and they put her under. Within 30 min it was over and she was in recovery. The recovery was hard because she was very upset. Her health was very good, but she cried for about an hour before falling back asleep. They said this was normal. We took her back to the hotel and mashallah she woke up in a great mood. I, on the other hand, was a complete mess. I can't believe I actually fell apart in the hospital and burst into tears. I just wanted Sarah out of that room and in my lap. Now she has her IV port still in her hand. They had a hard time getting it in (Nomadic....) so they didn't want to remove it and then try to find another one on Wed. They just wrapped it up and closed the actual port so there is no chance of infection. She's not allowed to take a bath until everything is finished in a few days. She's not happy about the wrap on her hand and keeps trying to take it off so we have to just distract her. But hamdillah she's in a great mood...ate a great dinner and everything. Now we have Wednesday which will be a bit longer in the hospital and Sarah has to be on her back for 2 days afterwards. Inshallah though it'll be worthwhile. Thank you all for your duaa and prayers for Sarah. They are really helping.
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Oh as for Reem, they still haven't given her the visa yet. Her father is so upset and we had to cancel her appointment. Inshallah it'll happen but the idiots in the embassy keep lying to Reem's father about when to come and get the visas. But that's another story.
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Dgnsd 1999 ish
No treatment or medictions at the mo.
'Bare the trials and tribulations for today for tommorrow is another day.'
Last night I began having a ton of pain on the left hand side and it was bothersome, DH didn't want to take any chances so we went to the ER..the doc was really nice, they said it may be an ectopic, they did blood tests, urine tests to check for UTI and also an ultrasound.
With a vaginal ultrasound they found a very very small circle looking thing like a grain of rice in the UTERUS but they did say that it was non-diagnostic and they cant say for sure bc it's too early..
my last period was may 17th but i ovulated on day 16 rather than day 14 so i think i am just hitting 5 weeks today..but my hcg levels last night were 3936..shouldnt they be able to see something bigger by now? they referred me to my ob for further testing in a few days..now i am worried that the sac is very behind..
Last night I typed quite a long post with all the personals and when I hit "post" button it gave an error. Agghrrrrrrrrrr! So annoyed! Now I don't have much time, here is just a few things:
Wantababy, inshaAllah your baby will be fine. Did you check the "normal beta levels" in the link I sent before? Yours seem to be great honey. Please do not put more burden on your body by stressing out that much. Pregnancy is already something that your body needs to adjust and that's why a lot of women feel extreme fatigue during the first trimester. InsaAllah everything will turn out fine sister. Our prayers are with you.
Sarahsmom, all the best with Sarah and inshaAllah Reem will join you too.
Zhara, welcome to the thread. We have so much to learn from your experiences.
Gracedmind, I know about your stepdad being from Urfa, a very nice mystical beautiful city. Most of the people from there have beautiful singing voices. They also have great food, a bit spicy though. That's the farthest point of country to where I am located . Regarding your testosterone question, that's true, testo is very closely connected to sex drive. I've read that in a lot of sources.
Zainab, that's an issue we still struggle with here in Turkey. The superficial ideals of modernity emposed on our people by manipulating either the judicial system or social pressure is still quite prominent here. The headscarf is still banned in universities and in all public jobs. That's why I had to drop out (well, was kicked out) of the best university here in Turkey and went to complete my uni education in Sydney, which is sad because I passed an exam to enter that former uni and ranked 100th among more than a million Turkish students. I am not telling this to boast, but just to tell that clothing-religion based discrimination is something that truly hurts me and I can identify with.
Chips, Bundleofjoy, nomadic and all the other sisters, helloooo! Nomadic, inshaAllah your health is better, are you still vomiting? Still being fed via IV?
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TTC#1 with severe male factor infertility
Currently on Metformin 2000 mg/day
Zainab, would be really nice to see you here. That's great news . I'll check for hotel booking websites in English. If you find a hotel you like, you can tell me and I can go and do an on-site-review for you , also I can comment on the location.
Graced, honey, our doctor said that testosterone levels fluctuate a lot during the day, so the best diagnosis can be made via testing your levels three days in a row in the mornings. Just my two cents.
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rusalka- i did..thanks so much..i know my levels are good..but at that level i feel like they should have been able to see a clear sac but they just saw a very tiny little hole which they said looks like the beginning of a gestational sac but they cant say for sure..i am going back for am ultrasound next friday..plz keep me in your duas sisters
Salaams ladies I have to go for a HCG and 2 hour GTT today...anything I should know before I go??
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Dgnsd 1999 ish
No treatment or medictions at the mo.
'Bare the trials and tribulations for today for tommorrow is another day.'
Salaam sisters. Thanks for the welcome Ruselka. Anyone here tried homeopathic medicine? I just started it 7wks ago and it seems to be working really well.
Zhara..welcome..Masha Allah you sound very inspirational. It would be really nice if you could post some duas that you read..I used homeopathic medicine but it didnt really work for me. What are you using? I was told to take pulsatilla i took it for three months.
Wantababy.I pray everything goes well for you and Allah blesses you with a healthy and pious baby. Also Jazakallah for the reminder of waking up for Tahajjud and doing Astagfar its very important for children and sustenance.
Sarahsmom.I pray all goes smoothly with Sarah Insha Allah.
I went for my HSG last monday, i am just awaiting results now. Plz make dua the results are ok and i can start on clomid Insha Allah.
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. Regarding your testosterone question, that's true, testo is very closely connected to sex drive. I've read that in a lot of sources.
