I would like if you ladies could pray for me and my family and my Dad during this time. We found out that he will not be going to Shands Hospital for the transplants and that he will not be able to get them. We are seeing a caseworker to talk about putting him in Hospice until he passes. I know alot of you ladies have prayed for me and kept my Dad in your thoughts and I want to say how much that meant to me and that I appreciate it a whole bunch! He is at peace with it and he says he knows he is going to Heaven and he did not shed a tear at all becuase he is so strong spirited. I feel sooo empty right now, I feel mad I feel sad I am angry I also know that he will be going to a better place, but I want him to stay and I just ask why him. I would like for you to just pray for our family and I am trying to stay strong and enjoy the last days with him and know that he was such a wonderful father, husband and person, he will always be my Angel watching over me and my kids and the family. I just have no idea what to do and it hurts sooo bad!! I wish that there was something we could do but there isn't and he told us that this is God's Plan for him. I just feel like it isn't fair. Please pray for all of us and keep him in your thoughts during his last few days. Thanks so much and all of you that was praying all along for him!!
Oh, Wendy! I am so very, very sorry to hear this news. Please know that reading about your dad's positive attitude is an inspiration to me. What a beautiful legacy of faith he will leave to you all. Praying for comfort and strength for all of you.
Heavenly Father, I take the time to pray for Wendy today. Jesus, her burdens are heavy but yours in light. I ask that she give those burdens to you, those heavy weights. I pray for peace in her heart and mind, and ask for strength. I pray for her father as he goes through this time. Jesus hold him, give him peace and strength. Let him feel no pain. I pray that you would surround this family with love, and that even though fear of the unknown and loss, and anger show through from emotions of feeling unable to control or help the situation, that we would remember who's in control and still have faith that you will see Dawn, her father, and her family through. Hold their hands together and bind their memories and love, and joy together. Let them not forget the good in the midst of the sorrow that dawn is feeling right now.....Help her to enjoy the time she has.....To see you through her Father. Give them Strength father....Give them Peace FAther I pray ...In Jesus Mighty name....AMEN!
God Bless You! No loss is easy when we have to deal with it head on. Its hard. The one thing you can give to your daddy is to love him, be there for him, and continue his legacy. He knows the Lord, and I'm sure its' important for him that you know Him as well if you don't already. But most importantly to share with each other the time that you have left. It's not over hunny. I always seem to make the mistake in my own life of thinking things are over before they really are. We don't know how long any of us have here really. Don't be afraid of losing him, you'll NEVER lose him. He'll ALWAYS be there and he'll ALWAYS be your daddy....but just remember that he's still here now and you still have special time to spend with him....don't waste it worrying . Its so hard, but know that Jesus is there and if I could be too, I'd be right there by your side lifting you up.
Love ya!
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I am praying for him and for you as well. I've been fortunate that all my loved ones who have died, I've known they were close to death and was able to spend time with them, tell them I loved them and what they mean to me etc. I've been fortunate not to lose anyone suddenly. I hope God blesses the time you have left with your father.
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I have been where you are now. I lost my dad when he was only 52 to brain cancer. I had the same feelings and went through the same emotions. The only positive (and it's not much) is that you can take the time to say everything that you need and want to say to your dad while he's still with you. Hospice is just full of wonderful people. Not only can they make your father more comfortable, but they have programs to help the families too. My dad's illness & death was the hardest thing that I have ever gone through. It will take time for you to work through all of the emotions that you have. Your family will be in my thoughts & prayers, and if there is anything I can do to help, please PM me.
My Dad was in hospice/pallative care in the last days of his life. They are wonderful, caring and understanding nurses in hospice and pallative care. I will pray for you, your dad and family.
My heart goes out to you. Don't feel guilty about your different emotions, that is absolutely normal. You're in my thoughts and prayers. May our heavenly Father wrap all of you in His tender arms at this difficult time.
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My Dad is going to Die soon... 
