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Old 05-14-2006, 03:25 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Default My Dad sent me a Mother's Day card...

I'm sitting at my desk with happy/sad tears streaming down my face. My dad sent me an e-Card "To Gabriel's Mom" and he said how proud he was of me, and how I am the best mother to Gabriel.

I can't even find the words to describe how deeply moved I am.

It's just what I needed. I love you Dad!!!!
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Old 05-14-2006, 03:31 AM   #2 (permalink)
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That's so wonderful Adrianne! I just received one from my cousin...of all people...like you, I am sitting here with happy and sad tears.

I wish you a very blessed Mother's Day!
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Old 05-14-2006, 04:46 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Thank you Diana! You too!

And thank you for the pic that you sent of you and Ali at WalkAmerica. It was nice to get that.
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Old 05-14-2006, 04:47 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Awwwwe, that is soooooooo nice of your dad. ((hugs))
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Old 05-14-2006, 06:13 AM   #5 (permalink)
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what a great dad, that is just beautiful, Happy Mothers Day Dear Cysters
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Old 05-14-2006, 06:39 AM   #6 (permalink)
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You're Dad is wonderful. I'm so glad he remembered. Sometimes it seems that after you lose a baby that you're the only person in the whole world who knows you are a mom. I can't imagine anyone in our family remembering before we had Jamie. Last year my mom even said "How are you enjoying your first Mother's Day?" I told her it wasn't my first and she actually said it didn't count before. She said I wasn't really a mother before. That really made me mad. It's really nice when someone understands.

Dianna, how very thoughful of your cousin.

Happy Mother's Day!

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Old 05-14-2006, 07:21 AM   #7 (permalink)
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What a wonderful dad! I know it's awful to go through tragedy, but sometimes it really brings the survivors closer and more able to understand and appreciate one another. It's hard work being a parent to a surviving child, but it can be sheer torture being the parent to one who is not living. Once someone knows that feeling, they truly are bonded to others who have experienced it. (((HUGS))) to your whole family, sweetie.
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Old 05-14-2006, 04:29 PM   #8 (permalink)
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hugs. i know how good it must have felt for him to acknowledge that you are a mommy (last year nobody but other moms of angels acknowledged me and i was so upset). i hope you have a peaceful day.
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Old 05-14-2006, 05:35 PM   #9 (permalink)
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That was a wonderful thing your Dad did!
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That made me cry! I think that's beautiful!

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That is SOOOOOO kind of your dad! How thoughtful and wonderful.

Off, topic, but Diana - love the picture of Ginger in your avatar!
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I'm sitting here in tears. You have such a wonderful and thoughtful father!
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Old 05-15-2006, 07:17 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Sheri, I think you're so right. I think my Mom and Dad understand now, what it is like to lose a child. I wish that it didn't take losing my brother to make that happen. They were always very supportive, but this Mother's Day, they were amazing. We all went out to dinner last night. At the end of the meal, the waitress asked who the mothers in the group were. I pointed to my mom and grandma... they both pointed to me. The waitress came back with red, long stem roses for all of us. It's so nice when people get it.
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Aww that's so great!! I can't believe your dad gave you a card! That's awesome!! I'm so glad we have some supportive people to help us through this.
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What a blessing on such a difficult day.
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