Rosey

hi Ladies,
I am sorry that we are all here, but thankful for the support. My first due date is on April 15th, I just had my 2nd m/c in seven months last week. What do you do to remember your lil one on their due dates. I know I want to do something but I am not sure what to do. I know next week is going to be rough for me.

I did have the pai-1 panel testing done yesterday, since my d&c was a waste of time since they did not get the baby out. So I am hoping that this testing will shed some light on my losses. Has anyone else done this testing to see if this could me their problem.

Well take care everyone. May God give us the strength to endure our sruggles to be become parents.
Rose

emilymegan

Hi Rose,

I'm sorry you have to go through this. I hope you have lots of family and friends for support.

I had a miscarriage 13 years ago this week

I remember it every year. I also remember my due date in November and think "This year I would have had a 13 year old child"

We'll always remember our little angels.

I can't help you with your testing question, but just wanted to wish you luck.

Have a great Easter,
Tracy

DaleAnn

Rose,

I'm not sure I can offer any advice, but I just wanted to let you know you are not alone. My due date was April 10 and I am not sure how I am going to handle it. We don't have anything special planned for that day, and frankly, I'm not sure my DH realizes the significance. He was excited about the pregnancy, but it was much more "real" for me, if you know what I mean. In some ways I do want to memorialize the day in some way, and in others I just want it to be over and move on. Anyway, I hope you find peace and healing.

Dale Ann

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PCOS since mid teens
Dx 04/02/01
PG 07/03, M/C 08/26/03
Now waiting for Annabelle Grace somewhere in China
LID 03/02/06

SheriKCMO

Rose,
We planted a tree next to our baby in the cemetery on her due date. We expected to have a beautiful, big, healthy baby in our thankful arms on that day, and instead we had that sinking, empty feeling and memories. This tree will be a monument to her life, which was NOT meaningless or in vain. It will live for many decades and grow very large. It's just one idea that you could use. My in-laws had a little memorial stone made for their little dog and keep it in their garden at home. I'm sure that this would make a good permanent memorial for a baby who has no grave. You could make a framed shadowbox or poem to hang inside the house, dedicated to your little one. I just wish you luck.
Please know that we care,
Sheri

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Metformin 1500mg, Yasmin, managing IR/pcos with lower carbs

First pregnancy ended at 23 weeks due to incompetent cervix.

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