Tomorrow would have been my due date. It was our second m/c. The first one was soo so early at 6 weeks. This one was at 11 weeks. I got to see the heart beat at 7.5 weeks, but sadly they said its little heart stopped around 9. I am of course down right now, more so that DH which makes it worse. I almost feel like he wants to pretend it never happened. We talked about it last night and all he said is that he doesn't want to dwell on it and that we can not change the past. I told him that I understand that but that we need to give our baby the recogition (sp) that it deserved. He just believes that it happened so move on. I think alot of it comes from his mother too. She feels the same way and doesn't think that we should refer to it as a baby and us as parents.
I just feel like all the heart break is back again and that we are reliving the whole nightmare over again.
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Married 08-21-04
1st pg lost 4-12-06 @ 6 weeks Baby Hudson
2nd pg lost 11-01-06 @ 11 weeks, Arin Hudson
4 furbabies- 3 cats and 1 very spoiled dog.
BFP 9-28-07 Due June 11, 2008
Its a GIRL
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I am so sorry. I have a ways to go til my due date but I know it will be hard. I think you should take time to mourn and dont feel like you should be feeling sad.
__________________ Melissa 27
My DH 26
DD-Piper born 4/29/09
Married 11/23/2002
Fur Babies-Rosie & Charlie
Dx 2000
TTC #1 since February 2003
Lapbanded-5/6/2008
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I've been through my first Due Date already, it was incredibly hard. ***HUGS*** I am sorry, please understand that you ARE very much a mommy, and NO ONE can take that away from you!
On my Due Date with Angel, we bought her balloons, and we drove out to a field and said a prayer and let them go. It helped in a way.... I think that you should try and do something to give that baby some recognition! Your first one too! ***HUGS***
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On a TTC break...
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Jana - I'm sorry it's your due date. It IS a special day and always will be.
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Keleigh (40) + Chris (37), married 3/11/00. Furbabies: 2 canine, 2 feline, love 'em all!
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Pre-2006 - DX with PCOS & Endo. 1 blocked tube. 6 mths Clomid, Lupron, 3 laps, 6 IUIs, 2 IVFs.
6 years of trying... no pregnancy. 9/06 - Pregnant the old fashioned way! (Go figure.) 10/06 - blighted ovum 4/18/07 - Shocker BFP!!
We have heartbeat!
5/16/07 - m/c at 8 weeks
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My due date is here 
