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Old 09-04-2005, 11:38 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Unhappy My due date was Sept. 2

I miscarried earlier this year at 5 weeks. I don't even know what to say because it seems like so many others have put my feelings into words better than I could. I've been coming to this board since January; it seemed to help just knowing that there were others who knew how I felt, although I'm sorry that any of us has to know what this feels like.

As my due date approached, I could feel this sadness welling up inside me. Now the due date has passed, but the sadness has not. I wish that I could just stop crying.
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Old 09-05-2005, 01:32 AM   #2 (permalink)
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It is definitely still a sad situation after special dates have passed. You are still fresh in grief, so just keep working through it and giving yourself tlc and time. I hope that things get easier for you very soon!
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Old 09-05-2005, 08:56 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Old 09-06-2005, 10:58 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Old 09-06-2005, 01:27 PM   #5 (permalink)
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So sorry for your loss...the anniversaries, especially the due dates and anniversaries of the loss, are SO hard. You will be in my thoughts.
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Old 09-07-2005, 08:24 PM   #6 (permalink)
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((Hugs))...the anniversaries are HARD! Be extra gentle with yourself right now.
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I'm so sorry. I don't have the words- please know I'm here for you if you need a shoulder.

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Old 09-10-2005, 02:19 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Thanks so much Sheri, Eva, Julianne, Saluki_fan, Viv, and Meredith for the hugs, well-wishes and kind thoughts. {{{{hugs}}}}

I feel better this week. It's still hard. I keep thinking that I should be holding my baby now. My arms feel so empty.
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