I don't think I've ever in my life felt so helpless....Well a lot of that have been on here for a while know that both of my children are bio siblings that both were adopted at birth right? Well some of you know that there is also a "child" inbetween my two that the birthmother and birthfather of mine kept to raise.
Well now they have split up and the BF has taken her, and the BM has talked to me and wrote me on how that if possible we would have the other child now to, (which I wrote her and told her that we would love to have her to). She said that he is mean and cruel tho & he won't even let her see her.
I have just been sick. I don't know what to do now. If I should just keep asking her about it, drop it or try to find a way to contact him and write him the same way that I did her.
I want the best for her as I'm sure they do but like she said they are not able to provide for her like they should. She isn't being taken care of properly right now and it's just breaking my heart some of the things that have been said.
What would you do? Would you keep writting her about it or just leave it to her to write?
The lil girl will be 3 in August, she's been thru so much already.
I'm sorry to throw this all out there, I'm just so emotional right now and cry my eyes out at night over this lil girl and pray my heart out.
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I would keep in touch with her. What about child services ? You have a really good case and your BM trusts you. Is the BF the same as your other 2 kids ?
Hhhmm tough spot ..
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I am not sure if it is the same in every state, but if the BM and BF are not married then technically, she has full coustody until it has been brought in front of a judge. I think the mom has some leverage to see her little girl and to get her back. That isnt going to help you adopt her, but it will help the BM and you know that she is a little bit more safe. I am sorry that you are going through this, i am sure that it just tears your heart apart. Just try to hold strong, and just do what is right for the child. If that means calling child protective services then that is what i would do.
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Just the same BF as my boy. Yeah even tho she still has the right to get her she won't. It really is a mess. But I've wrote her again, just waiting to see if I hear anything from her, Thanks for the responses and i'll keep you posted
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I hope what happens is what is meant to be. I know you love your kids Lisa and that if you could adopt the 3rd it would be a perfect fit. Hopefully the BF will get tired of his game and let the poor baby have a proper life How very frustrating !!!!
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My heart is just aching right now 
