my husband doesn't find me attractive because of this...
Well, my husband and I have been together for 3.5 years and I have always had acne...the past 2.5 years he barely ever wants to be intimate with me...he has always said he was tired. Well I finally dragged the real reason out of him...it is because of the acne. I am just heart broken. I don't know where to turn now...
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PCOS since age of 15...
Ovarian cyct removal at 15 and took most of my right ovary
Egg Donor 6 times...
2000mg Metformin
and also sounds fishy to me, if you have always had acne, why is it now a problem?
I just wanted to tell you your not alone, and this is his problem! I'll be thinking of you. Hopefully my brilliant cysters will have better, specific, advice for you, but for now know I'm hoping things get better for you soon.
You always had it, why in the heck it is a problem to him now? Pluss, in relationship you have to take the person as she/he is. Acne is just a part of you. Sad part anyway. It is so unpolite of him to say something like this.
Pleas do not let this saying ruin your self-esteem!
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Vitex, L-Thyroxin, Soy
DS Freddy Aleksander born July 22, 2003 (my "herbal" baby)
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my response to this? I know he's your hubby....but what a jerkoff thing to say to someone.
I always thought it was important to build your spouse up, not down.
While it's true - he can't help if he's attracted or not...he's the one who married you, and if you had it before, I'm not understanding the problem here.
If he's like this and has been since early on in your marriage, I would really question what's going on in his head.
Counselling...for starters. Even just to get some thoughts out in the open, as it seems that he's reluctant to talk. Then you can go from there...but I mean, dang. Your self esteem needs HELP with PCOS, not worse stuff. What an awful feeling....my heart ached hearing this.
I'm engaged to be married to a wonderful man, and while my acne isn't severe, it does exist. And he sure as heck isn't saying he's not attracted to me...probably because he's too busy laughing and enjoying my company than worrying about it. Nobody looks that great at 75, and marriage is supposed to be for life. That's my opinion.
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} Hang in there okay? You sound like a beautiful person to me.
my husband doesn't find me attractive because of this... 
