I don't know what to do, my husband told me this morning that he no longer loves me and that he wants a divorce. I feel like I have been hit by a truck, I had no idea that he felt that way! Things have been kinda of tough for us for the last year or so, I did something really f****d up. (no I didn't cheat on him, I lied to him about money stuff) I really thought we had worked through it and that things were getting better. I know that it is my fault but I really thought he had put it behind him. It's just hurts so bad, it's like a physical pain. I mean I can feel my heart breaking into two. I just love him so much. He says that is part of the problem, that he feels smothered by me. He did agree to go see a marriage counsler and I pray that will help. I don't want to lose him! Thank you for reading this.
I'm sorry that you have to go through this, but don't put the blame on yourself when things like this happen it's something to do with both people in the relationship. I really hope everything works out for you and the councelling works, just keep strong
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I've never been married and unfortunately can't give any advice. I'm so sorry you are going through this pain. At least your hubby is agreeing to counseling...don't give up hope. Please keep us posted and know that there are a lot of caring people on this board.
Sorry to hear that honey, I've been through the same, DH told me he no longer loved me and it is true, you feel like your heart is breaking. It's great he will consider counselling, mine didn't/ still won't, I have my fingers crossed for you.
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I'm so sorry! What an awful pain to have to deal with. I hope that counseling helps you both to make headway and a plan that is beneficial to you both (whether that's staying together or not). It's hard to have the carpet ripped out from underneath you
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I went through something similar last year. I will send you lots of prayers. It's not easy....but you will need lots of family and friends to get through it. I hope it can work out for you if that's what you want.
Oh honey, I feel so sorry for you. I've been there, but with a serious boyfriend - it was years before I met my hubby but it still bugs me to think about it. I'll never cease to wonder what can make someone fall "out" of love. Good luck with the counseling, it's a good sign that he's at least willing to go!
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I am trying to get a counsling appt for today, I am waiting for a call back from two different counslers. I am trying to find a male, I think that if we saw a woman that he might feel like he is being ganged up on. We talked so more last night, but I still don't understand. He did sleep with me last night, we just slept together but he did touch me and put his arms around me. I think that he still loves me, he just is going through something right now. He does suffer from depression. He used to take prozac but he stoped taking it about 3 months ago. I really feel like this is part of it and that is why I am fighting so hard. I know that we can work this out, but he also needs to face his depression. I also think I might be suffering from a slight depression. I lost my job in sept of 2007 and have just be sitting home since. I want this to work out! I am willing to do whatever it takes! Please wish me luck!
I am so sorry to hear this. I know how bad news can be. It always feels like it takes all the wind out of you. I really hope you can work things out. It hurts to lose those you love and have loved for so long.
Best of luck.
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My husband is leaving me 
and embrace that..
