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10-21-2005, 03:14 PM
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| | 57 cycles TTC & 2 m/c
Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Hillside, NJ
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Points: 879.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 879.00 | My Miscarriage =0( Hi Everyone,
I am new here... but I figured this would be a good place to start...
My name is Laura (25) and DH is John (26)
We have been ttc since 01/01/01
We have been diagnosed with PCOS, annovulatory cycles and the dreaded Unexplained Infertility...
We tried a few rounds of clomid in 02 with no response...
Then we tried a round of injectables (which I had responded very well to) and then the night before our scheduled IUI my uncle passed away and we decided that it was better to wait... Well the following cycle I lost my insurance coverage... so we couldnt do a second cycle of injectables with an IUI... But we found out a week later that we were pregnant and we ended up having a miscarriage in April 2004...
Since then we had been on break because of the insurance issues... and in July of this year we found out we were pg!!!
I was classified high risk because of my ovaries and my sugars... but we went for our beta test EVERY two days... and everything was looking great... we went for our first u/s on July 30... It was amazing!!!
Well at 9 weeks I started having SEVERE cramps... I went to the dr. and he basically told me that there was nothing they could do and that it is in god's hands at that point...
later in the week I was still in severe pain so I went back to the dr. and he did an ultrasound... He came back in the room to tell me that the baby's heart had stopped 5-7 days before that...
How could this happen... it is soooo unfair...
I started to miscarry on 8/24 and the dr took a tissue sample...
We got the test results back and the dr. seems to believe that there was nothing wrong other then my progesterone levels... So he seems to believe that if and when we concieve again, he will have me on progesterone from the beginning and hopefully that will avoid this happening again...
But how are we supposed to concieve again without ovulating?!?!? WTF!!!! 
So that my story in a nutshell...
Now I have started back on my Met for a another cycle and we are going to move on to the Met / Clomid combo cycle as soon as I can get back into the dr.
Thanks for listening...
Love,
Laura
__________________ Laura (25) To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. John (26)
TTC#1 since 01/01/01
M/C 4/24/2004 & 8/19/2005
Diagnosed with PCOS 6/04
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10-21-2005, 03:19 PM
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| | Sad and Happy Mom
Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Kansas City, MO Looking for local buddies!
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Points: 90,697.82 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 90,697.82 | i'm very sorry for your losses, laura. i hope that your dreams come true very soon, though you will always carry these first babies in your heart. ((hugs))
__________________ Sheri:36 Hubby:36
Metformin 1500mg since 10/02, Yasmin since 4/06, managing IR/pcos with lower carbs
First pregnancy ended at 23 weeks due to incompetent cervix. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. Mary Catherine will be in our hearts forever, November 28, 2003.
Second loss March 9, 2004 at five weeks
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10-21-2005, 03:21 PM
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| | 57 cycles TTC & 2 m/c
Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Hillside, NJ
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Points: 879.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 879.00 | Thank you so much Sheri...
I must admit the support system around here is amazing!!! It's as if EVERYONE around these boards can sympathize and TRULY understand where I am coming from...
__________________ Laura (25) To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. John (26)
TTC#1 since 01/01/01
M/C 4/24/2004 & 8/19/2005
Diagnosed with PCOS 6/04
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10-21-2005, 03:22 PM
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| | Always luv my angel Tyler
Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: NC
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My Mood: Points: 9,769.68 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 9,769.68 | I want to say welcome, but I wish you didn't have reason to join us. I am new here also and I just wanted to say I understand your concern about not O'ing. I don't O either, nor do I even have periods without using NPC...still don't know how we got pregnant in the first place...what finally went right.
Anyway, there is such a good support system here, you will find that all of the cysters are here to listen and be of encouragement to each other. Thank you for sharing your story.
__________________ Dx: 1995
TTC: 7+ years
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To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. Praying and believing God for another miracle. |
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10-21-2005, 03:26 PM
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| | 57 cycles TTC & 2 m/c
Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Hillside, NJ
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Points: 879.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 879.00 | Thank you shandris so much for sharing with me
__________________ Laura (25) To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. John (26)
TTC#1 since 01/01/01
M/C 4/24/2004 & 8/19/2005
Diagnosed with PCOS 6/04
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10-21-2005, 03:49 PM
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| | Let's Go Red Wings!
Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: West Michigan
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My Mood: Points: 6,325.46 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 6,325.46 |  I'm sorry to hear about your loss.
((hugs))
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Moving on to IVF after a year of infertility and 3 Femara cycles. Lupron started on 7/27. |
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10-21-2005, 03:51 PM
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| | Please stick!
Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: NY
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My Mood: Points: 22,586.14 Bank: 2,081,883.78 Total Points: 2,104,469.92 | Welcome (although I'm sorry I have to say that). I'm sorry for your lost babies. I hope you can find the support you need here.
((hug))
__________________ Me - 31 DH - 32 Married 8/8/1998
PCOS Dx. 07/04
4 early losses over 7 years.
BFP! Aug 14th! EDD April 20, 2009
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10-21-2005, 03:53 PM
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| | Babysteppin Cyster
Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: ontario, canada
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Points: 33,742.64 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 33,742.64 | Laura...i'm so sorry for your loss.
I just wanted to let you know that even us girls who dont O still get 2nd chances sometimes...when the time is right. But for now, take care of yourself and your hubby and my thoughts are with you and your little angel baby who is watcing over you i'm sure... 
__________________ Kim 40 PCOS/IR/IC/PIH/PTL
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10-21-2005, 03:57 PM
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| | Married Cyster
Join Date: May 2005 Location: New York, USA
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Points: 3,786.81 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 3,786.81 | Also so very sorry to hear about your losses.
BIG (((((HUGS))))) 
__________________ Stacie (29) Married to Paul (33) Aug. 2, 2003 To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
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10-21-2005, 04:03 PM
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| | My baby girl - Ginger!!
Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Hammond, IN
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My Mood: Points: 8,088.80 Bank: 0.02 Total Points: 8,088.81 | I am so sorry for your loss. (((hugs)))
__________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. Diana - 36! To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
Our sweet angel, Mohamed Matthew Raymon Illyas,
born and at rest on November 30, 2004.
Lived only 30 precious minutes...(IC at 20 weeks) Forever in our hearts, Together in our dreams.
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10-21-2005, 04:25 PM
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#11 (permalink)
| | 57 cycles TTC & 2 m/c
Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Hillside, NJ
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Points: 879.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 879.00 | Thank you all soooooo much for posting... It really is a BIG help to know that there are so many of you out there that KNOW exactly how I am feeling...
It really stinks that we all have had to go through this...
__________________ Laura (25) To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. John (26)
TTC#1 since 01/01/01
M/C 4/24/2004 & 8/19/2005
Diagnosed with PCOS 6/04
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10-21-2005, 05:00 PM
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| | Missing Rivelino forever
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My Mood: Points: 171,466.88 Bank: 15,325,572.45 Total Points: 15,497,039.33 | I'm so sorry, sweetie. ((hugs)),
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10-21-2005, 05:02 PM
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| | Registered User
Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Illinois
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Points: 12,322.83 Bank: 59,419,099.57 Total Points: 59,431,422.40 | {{{HUGS}}} I am so sorry for you loss. Words can never express the pain we feel, but know we are hear for a shoulder to lean on.
~tracy |
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10-21-2005, 06:37 PM
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| | ...zzz...zzz...zzz...
Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: I stopped the Bridge to Nowhere!
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My Mood: Points: 12,884.77 Bank: 11,346.86 Total Points: 24,231.63 | Laura, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that now that you have a diagnosis, the TTC journey will be shorter for you this time around. You'll be in my thoughts.
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10-22-2005, 12:44 AM
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| | Proud Mama!
Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Near Dallas, TX
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My Mood: Points: 37,290.68 Bank: 14,647,108.24 Total Points: 14,684,398.91 | I'm so sorry for your loss. Our situations are so similar. I got my + in July also. Your in my prayers. Praying you ovulate on your own!
Steph
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