Hi,
my mum got diagnosed with pancriatic and lymphatic cancer. So i'm just trying to keep my worrys to myself and remain positive for my mum and stepdad. She'e been given a life sentence of six months at the most. I'm so scared of losing her. She's not only my mum but also my best friend, i just wish it was me and not her.
Elly
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I'm so sorry sweetie.
PM me if you need to talk or vent.
Hugs!
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I'm really sorry to hear that. I've had a similar experience recently so if you ever feel the need don't hesitate to email or PM me
Briggy
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Elly...so sorry to read your news. I will say a prayer for you and your family. Your mum is going to need you so feel free to seek support from us here.
I would just like to say that my mom was diagnoised with "Non hodgkins lymphoma Cancer" about 3 years ago, she went through Chemo and beat the cancer. But sometimes not everyone is so lucky. Just love your mom and keep her positive... I dont agree with the six month thing because nobody should be able to give your life a tag and tell you when its gonna be over... Just make sure u keep her up... Im sory to hear abot this... Its hard trust me I know...
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Years ago, my mum died and she also knew she was going. Around the time of her last few months, someone gave me an autograph book as a present and my mum kept nagging me to give her it so she could write in it. I was only 10 and very onery (also didn't believe for a minute she would really die), so I kept putting it off - maybe because I sensed there was something final about it. Anyway one morning I gave in and gave her the book. She wrote two beautiful poems there for me, and for the rest of my life, whenever I have missed her I think of her words, and what a gift that was. Although it's tough, the only good thing about someone knowing they're going is they do get to say their goodbyes. Ask her to write something down for you, love, or tape something. Whilst the going's good, have some days out and film them (my mum died before people had home videos - I'll never see her face or hear her voice again - for you it's different, love). Ask her what ambition she hadn't fulfilled, or where she'd like to go. Leave nothing unsaid. Tell her you love her each day (I wish I had my mum).
My dad has prostate cancer and although the drugs are working right now, he is elderly. I often call him and talk about things I never would have before - as when he's gone, so will his memories be.
Do ask her to write something for you, though, as you'll have that forever. And write something down for her, your happiest childhood memory, or something like that. And don't be afraid to talk about it with her.
Lots of love, Polly xxx
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my mum has six months to live at the most 
