Okay I had a miscarriage and 11 weeks. (DNC) My MIL never called me to see how I was doing. So I thought maybe she was having a rough time dealing with it. When I did she her all she said/asked was "what did they do with the body"? This really rubbed me the wrong way. Am I reading too much into this or was this just uncalled for?
Chrissy
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Oh hon....I'm so sorry for your loss and I'm SO sorry that your MIL said something so horrible and something so awful and heartless! I'm sorry but this was completely uncalled for! Just reading that made me furious, I can't imagine if someone ever said that to me about losing my child! I'm so, so sorry sweetie!
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I'm so sorry for your loss. It has always amazed me how few people are actually able to use their brains. To top it off, the STOP sign between their brains and their mouths never seems to be functional. I'm sorry she was so hurtful. That was not an appropriate thing to say. I don't have any advice for you. The truth is that people say and do the dumbest things after you experience a loss and many of them truely think they are being helpful or kind. (((hugs)))
I'm so sorry about your MIL. I had an extremely difficult time with my MIL when I had my loss as well. I still feel a lot of resentment towards her, considering the time I wasted upset about her, I could/should have spent grieving my child. Some people just don't understand, and say 'things' just for the sake of opening their mouths it seems.
I am very sorry for your loss as well.
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((Chrissy)). Your MIL was totally out of line - your baby was a lot more than a "body." I think people can't understand a loss until they have one, so they just say really heartless, stupid things.
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