I recently miscarried and i really dont know how to cope. I went from thinkn i couldnt concieve 2 losing one. I only knew a wk an a half but was so happy an then it was taken away and i'm afraid that i might not concieve again an if i do the same thing will happen again. Every1 keeps telin me at least now i know i can concieve but it still hurts an dont think i cud cope going thru that again emotionaly an physically. Can someone please give me advice if you have gone thru the same thing an how to cope. Thankx. xx
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(((Mary))) I'm so sorry for your loss. I don't know what else to say. I hope someone will have a suggestion as to how to cope and get through. I would imagine it's a similar greiving process like any other loss and in time it gets a bit easier to get through the day. Sending you lots of hugs (((())))
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TTC since June 2004 w/ PCOS & MFI
Countless cycles with Clomid or Soy with TI all BFN
3 IUI's BFN
2 IUI's cancelled due to no response
3 IVF's cancelled due to no response
Lap/Ovarian Drilling Sept. 28/09
Dec/09 cycle with Soy, clinic will be closed so no IUI this round
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I am very sorry for your loss. Sometimes people dont know what to say so they try to look for any positives they can find. But that doesnt always help, hugs!
I know exactly what you are going through. I only knew for a week that I was pg and it too was taken from me. All I know is that it still hurts but not as bad. There's not a day that goes by that I don't think about my angel baby. Why don't you do something to remember your baby? Personally, my DH and I went out and got the same tattoo of a halo and angel wings. When were you due? Maybe you could get a piece of jewelry with that month's birthstone. I know you are sick of hearing it, but it is proof that your body can become pregnant. I'm not one to tell you just to be patient b/c i am not myself....but it will happen!
PM me if you need anything.
__________________ Nicole (32) & Marc (29)
3 angels in heaven
IVF#1 - Caden Joseph 12/27/07 8lbs 8oz 20 inches
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oh Mary, your post was heartbreakin, and I have so been there. I also had finally conceived in 2004, only to m/c at 8 weeks. It was one of the most traumatic things I had to go thru, and I also was devestated.
I finally re-started fertility tx this year, but I went thru a phase where I honestly didnt know if I could do this again. Believe me, the pain does diminish somewhat and you realize you just have to bite the bullet and try and try again....
Try meditation techniques, that really helped to calm me in those months after.
__________________ Rekha Sharma
married: 8/94; ttc for 12 years
conceived in 1/2004; miscarried in 3/2004
April 2006 thru June 2006 - clomid 150 mg with IUI; unsuccessful
I'm doing ok. I did a soy/clomid combo for this cycle, so I'm just waiting to O. I really hope this is my time, I so desperately want to be pg.
Have you started TTC again?
__________________ Nicole (32) & Marc (29)
3 angels in heaven
IVF#1 - Caden Joseph 12/27/07 8lbs 8oz 20 inches
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Mary
I just wanted to say that I m/c in may at 10wks. I am still heartbroken but believe me , it does get easier. At the time I thought I would never feel positive but I do now. Give yourself as much time as you need. I focused on making it through one day at a time.....eventually I was able to get through a few days at a time and so on.
Keep focused on the future and never ever feel like it's something you did that caused it. Most of all don't let fear stop you from trying again if its what you want.
I found this board very helpful for venting my feelings and sharing the experience with others who have been through it too. I wish you the best of Luck and heaps of babydust!
Talk to me anytime you want....
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mary i just want to say we are all here for you and wish you well. i am thinking of you and praying that you get through it ok.
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thanks rehka,you are so nice and thak you very much for your support u are very kind. I'm gettn der still have my very bad days where i cant stop crying but its gettn easier.
Wish u da best of luck with ttc. Talk again.
Mary.xxxx
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Need help plz 
