I am 20yrs old and have never had a boyfriend. I have met someone recently but am unsure whether it is worth getting involved as i am very hairy and have noticeable facial hair( which is made worse as my neck has become darker from shaving. I dont know if I will be able to take this risk, and let myself be in a relationship. I want to but I m scared of what will hppen I know I will constantly be trying to hide my facial and body hair. I dont know how he would deal with it. If he doesn't deal with it well then I dont think I would be able to see anybody else as I would feel to embarrassed and hurt. I just dont know what to do.
Thank you so much for your advice. It is really good to talk to someone who understands. I think I will give it a try and see how it goes, I guess if we take it slowly enough, it will give me time to build up my confidence and feel comfortable around him. I wish things weren't so difficult. I am just worried that if I take this chance and it ends badly, I won't be able to see anyone else.
Hi there.. I hear ya.. I went through the same thing. hide my facial hair for years. I would get up earlier than everyone else and I always had to wear make up. I also could never let anyone touch my face. I finally got engaged and I told my fiance. When I told him I had such fear of him freaking out. It was like I was telling him I had been raped.. it was that bad. He thought I was going to tell him something horrible. When I told him he said is that all.. and we where fine. I still hate to be touched, but if he loves you then he will stay. My advice is to hide it until you are ready. Don't put yourself out there and in the open until you know you can trust him.. the last thing you need is someone spreading it around that you are the circus bearded lady. Make sure he is the right thing before you give your self to him.. this is a horrible thing and your feelings are at stake. BUT DO TAKE THE CHANCE TO FALL IN LOVE.. DON'T CHEAT YOURSELF OF HAPPINESS..
Thank-you for your advice. I am still a bit undecided about what to do ( it's such a big risk), but your advice has been really helpful. I think I know what to do, it's just if I let this opportunity go there are no guarantees that there will de another one, but at the same time I feel that I am not ready to deal with this at the minute.
you don't have to make a decision NOW. Let things happen... see if he is worth your trust... you will know.. it make take months.. years.. but it will be worth it.. you deserve the same happiness as someone without this stupid condition... If you ever need anything else.. i am at amacaluso@houston.rr.com.. feel free to email me..
Hi I have been in the same position many times. I would hide under make-up make sure I shaved really close on the days I would see my man. Their are many women out here who have facial and body hair and men who do not care about it. If this man is really a man and has your best interest at heart he will see pass the hair and be more concerned with your heart. If he is the type to make a big deal about your hair then he is probably not worth your time anyway and don't sweet it. Happy Dating
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