Need to turn these thoughts around

fran · 05-29-2002, 04:07 PM

Well some of you might have read my rant and know about dh and his big secret that I could let destroy our marriage. However I am not. I am thankful for my parents who had a marriage of worth, value, love, and most of all commitment til death parted them. When I took my vows I promised God I would have that kind of marriage. I just didn't know what I was commiting too. I am thankful for God for being an example of forgiveness. He sent his son to die for our sins so we could be forgiven and spend eternity in heaven. If he can forgive me for the things I do again him then I can surely forgive my husband and his family for keeping this secret. I am trying to channel all negatives about this situation into something positive. I am thankful for my pastor who reminded me of all the things I already knew. And that he was there for me in a moments notice. I am thankful to be able to come here and vent.
Fran

CTCyster · 06-03-2002, 10:16 PM

Fran-

I just posted a response to your original "rant" but I just wanted to let you know that I admire your commitment to your husband and to your marriage. We all go through trials of one kind or another. I know you are dealing with something that most people can't even fathom. I just wanted to let you know I said a prayer for you and you're in my thoughts.

If you ever need to talk, PM me- I am a good listener

Your cyster,
Aimee