Congrats on your new little boy and welcome to Soulcysters!
Here are my suggestions:
Get a complete hormononal profile by a good endocrinologist and compare the results yourself to the chart in Diagnosing PCOS section here:
http://www.inciid.org/faq/pcos.html (in fact, just spend the time to read that entire faq!)
Consider meds like Glucophage (generic name Metformin) for insulin control and Aldactone (generic spironolactone) for androgen control. I have read many reports of the brand name being much more effective in both cases than the generic (which allows up to a 20% quality variance).
Read about Alternative Remedies in the forum for insulin and androgen control - my favorite "alternatives" are the IR Diet and the herb saw palmetto.
Take a multivitamin, flax seed oil, evening primrose oil and a b-complex.