new here and just had m/c

looking4myangel · 09-28-2003, 10:53 PM

Hello all,
i'm sorry if this is long but it's my story. I found out i had pcos when i was about 20 years old when i was ttc with my ex. Well in 1998 I met my now dh. We have been ttc ever since. I was pg then found out that it was a blighted ovum in 2000. Well ever since that we were ttc and nothing. I was on the met and clomid and still nothing. Well Nov of 2002 dh joined the army so I started taking yasim (bc). After dh was done with basic training and AIT he came home for a month before going to Korea for a year (without me

) Well i stopped taking bc in may hoping we would be blessed with a baby while he was home. Well i didn't get af at all in june ( took test BFN) and didn't get af in july (on the 15 took another test BFN) DH left for Korea july 20. On sept 15 i had a pain in my side called doc and he said take a pg test. So on the 17 of sept took test..BFP

!!! I couldn't believe it. Went to doc that day to confirm went for an ultrasound and they saw nothing. They did HCG first was 62 second was 76. That following tuesday had terrible cramps went to doc and HCG dropped to 22.5. I was totally devistated. I had to go through this by myself due to dh being overseas. thank you for letting me share my story,

*DannysMom* · 09-28-2003, 10:57 PM

I am so sorry to hear what you have been through.
I hope you will find some comfort in knowing that quite a few of us have been down that same road... and can possibly lend you some support during this difficult time.

Karen

Kaymara · 09-29-2003, 04:44 AM

I am so sorry for your loss.

I too was home alone for my loss. My DH is in the Navy and had happened to be gone during the time I found out I was pg, and when I m/c. I know how hard it musta been for you. I found myself slipping into depression with being alone, the loss, etc and i sought comfort thru friends, family, and this message board. It truly helped me alot! Take good care of yourself! And again I am sorry for your loss!

Kay