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carriebabbie · 02-04-2008, 09:59 PM

Beth good luck with your injections.

I'll be joining you ladies in the TTC again. Found out today my baby died a week ago. I have the d&c on Friday and then that starts cd1 for me.

Carrie

CaliGirl! · 02-04-2008, 10:47 PM

Carrie...I am so sorry. I don't even know what to say. Do they think it was related to the last one? I can't even believe it. ((Hugs))

carriebabbie · 02-05-2008, 07:15 PM

No, they are completely unrelated, but who knows. I'll survive, I just keep telling myself that.

ASMay · 02-05-2008, 11:32 PM

((((((((((CARRIE))))))))))))) i am so sorry. I am soo sorry. If i were with you, i would give you a hug. i will praying for you.

((((((((((((((((CARRIE)))))))))))))))))))))))))

bethie3379 · 02-06-2008, 04:50 PM

Carrie, I am so sorry, and I just want you to know that I have been praying for you (for all of us actually), and I will certainly continue to do so. I know there are no words that can ease the pain, but please let us know if you need to vent. Please keep us updated, and I will be thinking of you on Friday. Try to get lots of rest over the weekend.

carriebabbie · 02-08-2008, 09:03 PM

I had my d & c today. DH has been wonderful, I cried after the procedure and he was so amazing. Talk about a cruel world though, the nurse who took me in for the procedure was pregnant, how awful is that.

I get to start over but I am very hopeful, much more so than I was after teh last one. I believe and I will pray for another pregnancy and I will also pray that you (beth) and Anna get one.

Mere, how are you doing? Are you keeping busy with your little boy?

Have a wonderful weekend ladies.

Carrie

CaliGirl! · 02-08-2008, 09:19 PM

Carrie...I'm so happy you posted. I have been thinking about you all day. I'm happy to hear that all went well. Your DH sounds like he is a wonderful man. Sorry you had to go through that. You are in my thoughts and prayers for a sticky bean and I just know you will get one soon! Relax and rest this weekend. You deserve it.

ASMay · 02-08-2008, 09:59 PM

Carrie, i am glad you posted too... i am so sorry you are having to go through this... but i am glad to hear that you are hopeful! you can get pregnant! that is good news! I am praying for you! (and beth... and me!) maybe we will all get our (next) bfps together!

Beth, how goes it! how did your injections go... have you o'd yet.

Amber, i need pics!

Buddy, how are you doing? pregnancy going well?

Mere, pics of your new baby please!!!

I will be o'ing around v-day i think. But, i have not been checking anything, so i don't know if i am even close. i had a longer heavier af this month, so i am hoping that means the pill is completely out of my system. sigh... i am tired. - i have had a rough couple of weeks at work... i am seriously considering... i can't even say it... sigh...

alright. i am going to bed... (i know... 9 on a friday night... i am such a fuddy duddy... old married maid! lol!)

Carrie rest some this weekend! i am praying!

bethie3379 · 02-08-2008, 11:59 PM

Hey guys, just wanted to check in before bed...
Carrie, I am glad you are doing ok since the D&C, and again, my heart goes out to you. But, as Anna said, and you have said before, you can get pg, and that is a great first step. My SIL also suffered at least 2 m/c's, and now they have a BEAUTIFUL little girl and are trying for their 2nd - stay hopeful!

As for me, I did my trigger last nite at 10, we BD'd, and we have our IUI tomorrow morning between 8:30 and 10...just depends on when they get the 'specimen' prepared and all - hopefully, we can get there before anyone else having a procedure and can go first! Well, I'll let y'all know how everything goes.

Have a nice weekend~

mereseeley · 02-09-2008, 01:53 AM

Carrie- I am very sorry for your loss. There are no words that can help to ease your pain. Only hugs to help you get through it (((Hugs))).

Sorry I have been gone from here the past two weeks. Things have been crazy but wonderful in bringing home my son. My parents have been here for the past week and have made things interesting besides. I had to go back to work tonight (long story), but at least I can finally catch up here. As for me, I got AF yesterday, and had lots of BFNs the past two weeks (since AF was late, prob b/c of traveling). I am going to try Soy again this month and wait and see. Thank you all for asking me how we are doing! As soon as I can figure out how to post pics I will, promise.

Lots of baby dust to everyone this month!!!!

bethie3379 · 02-10-2008, 09:42 AM

Mere, congrats again on having your little boy home - I know he is filling your life with joy!

Well, my IUI went well yesterday - she had no problems getting the catheter in, and we had lots of sperm, so we'll see how it goes. We BD'd the nite of trigger (Thursday), had the IUI Saturday, and we'll try to BD today (DH is sick - bless his heart, he felt awful yesterday, but he was a trooper and we did what needed to be done!). I am having more discomfort this time than I remember from last time - don't know if it's O pain or what.

How is everyone?

CaliGirl! · 02-11-2008, 01:44 PM

Beth...Glad to hear the IUI went well. Your poor DH having to do that while sick. Well I guess it's nothing compared to what we go through but I hope he feels better and this ends in a BFP!

Carrie...How are doing? How are you feeling from the D&C?

Mere...Your son is so cute! I bet you are busy with your new little boy. Congrats!

Anna...That would be really great to conceive your little one on V-Day. Good Luck this cycle!!

We moved this weekend and I am exhausted and sore. Still have to clean the old apartment and set up the new one so there is still a lot of work to do. But I love our new place!!

Have a great day everyone!

~Amber

bethie3379 · 02-13-2008, 12:00 PM

Amber, I posted this question on a new thread, but really didnt' get any response, so I wanted to ask you, since you triggered, what days did y'all BD? In relation to the trigger, not your cycle days...
Thanks!

CaliGirl! · 02-13-2008, 01:27 PM

We BD'd 2 days before the trigger, then in the morning the day before the trigger, then the night of the trigger, the next night, the next night, and then whenever after. So basically everyday but we made sure to BD in the morning the day before the trigger, then got the trigger the next morning and BD'd that night. That way DH's boys had time to be at their fullest for what I think was the most important BD. If that didn't make any sense just let me know and I will try to use days instead. Some girls like to do every other day so it's up to you. When do you trigger?

bethie3379 · 02-13-2008, 02:26 PM

I already did...last Thursday nite. We had BD'd on the Monday before, but not between b/c DH was sick - he still is actually. But we BD'd the nite of the trigger, had the IUI on Saturday a.m. and weren't able to bd again b/c of DH feelin so crappy. I was just glad we got to go do the IUI - I thought he may want me to call and let them know we wouldn't be coming in. We'll see what happens....if no bfp this time, we're giving it one more try next cycle, so I wanted to see when y'all BD'd for future reference. My RE really wasn't much help with that when I asked about it. You know how they can be...like, "Well you can certainly have timed intercourse along with the IUI - that is just up to you." So, basically, do whatever! Thanks for the feedback.