I am now waiting for my second M/C. I am afraid it is going to drag on for months again. I was pregnant last May for about a weekend when my numbers just weren't going up like they should and the same has happened with this pregnancy. Every other day my numbers go up by a few just to pro long the torture of the inevitable.
I had IVF this time so it is even more stressfull than with the IUI last year. I am hoping my RE can figure out the problem since there is now a pattern. I know he will do a D&C if I decide but last time he suggested that so early on it is better to go naturally. If it follows as last time I am looking at maybe the end of April if I am lucky. Ha Lucky! Then 2-3 more months before I can try IVF again. I have PCOS, Diabetes, am overweight and I am friggin 39. I don't have much on my side. This entire process is so time consuming and frustrating. I was so relieved when they figured out that I could actually get pregnant. Now I don't no what to think!!! Do I try again? Can he possibly figure out the problem????? I don't know how much more I can take. Time certainly is not on my side.
I'm so sorry you are having to go through this again. Please don't give up though. My aunt was 39 and had two m/c's then had a healthy baby boy the next year. I don't know if that helps, but if she had given up she wouldn't have her son and would always be wondering what if.
There is hope.
You're in my prayers.
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There has been so much sadness here lately i want to encourage you...to let you know that things will get better, and that better days will come.
These horrible experiences can only make us stronger...hard to believe right now i'm sure...i KNOW...
Take care and be good to you...
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I am so sorry you have to go through this again. Please don't give up hope yet. When do you see your RE again? Keep us updated. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
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Delila,
I'm waiting right now as well. I went off the progesterone suppositories last Thursday, and I've barely had any bleeding at all. If this takes a while, I'm trying to use this time to exercise more and lose some weight. I know it's not fun, but it can help us to succeed with treatment when we get our next chance. And it feels darn good to drop a few! Just an idea, girlfriend. I hope we both see red really soon!
Take care, and ((Big Hugs)),
Sheri
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We certainly think alike. That is exactly my plan too. Exercise more and drop at least a few pounds before the next round. I figured also, why waste the time. I just checked into kick boxing and I will definetly start walking again. It is also back to the IR diet no cheating..... I am going to start looking into adoptions too. Even if this works eventually we would love to have more than one.....and if it dosn't work well...that is the other option..
I don't go back to the RE until sat and if the levels are still going up he will send me for a ultra sound next week (that just really stinks). He still has me on all my drugs progesterone and baby aspirin. We all know the doctors have to cover themselves. Well keep your fingers crossed that the levels are finally falling or at least not rising anymore......Good luck to you.
Delila
No M/C yet! Waiting again will drive me insane! 
