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Old 12-18-2006, 12:47 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Hi everyone not sure if this group is for pg that was your own or not...but DH and I were going to adopt a baby and on March 3rd the bmom had toxemia and the baby had to be taken at 25 weeks unfortunately we were unaware that the bmom had hypothyroidism and was not taking her meds (bmom was step cousin) The docs told us because she wasnt taking her meds the baby had stopped growing at 20 weeks. I haven't been able to talk about it much and the other day I walked past her nursery and just broke down....We have ttc since 98 and when bmom was pg it was the happiest we have ever been...now we are back to square one and ttc again...

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Old 12-18-2006, 04:01 PM   #2 (permalink)
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(((HUGS)))- You are in the right place! I am so sorry for your loss! I read more of the story on the rant thread and I hope that you find some peace in all this!
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You are for sure welcome here! Your situation may be slightly different but you are hurting just the same. Hugs to you.
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((Hug)) You ARE in the right place. I am SO sorry for your loss. Maya Ruth was taken at 24 weeks 2 days from us so it was around the same time Abigail was taken from you. This is a wonderful support group. ((hug))
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Thank you all so much!!! I haven't really been able to talk about it much lately, but seems like everything happened at once...arg. Dh doesn't talk about it much although I know he is hurting too... for all of you Thanks again!!

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Jayde,

First, I'm so sorry for your loss.

Second, a loss is a loss. It doesn't matter how or why, the pain is all the same.

Welcome here with us. I'm just so sorry that you have to be here.
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Your pain is a mother's pain, just like ours. We were carrying the babies we all talk about, but you were the expectant mom in your situation, so I completely agree that you are in the right place. Many hugs coming your way!! So many of the moms here have struggled with fertility and then suffered loss, it is simply a cruel reality among us. I wish you a bright future, however you and your husband become parents to a living child. But to me, you are parents to your little girl forever.
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Old 12-30-2006, 03:02 AM   #12 (permalink)
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Thank you all...sorry I haven't been posting much lately..both dh and I had the flu and I am just now feeling well enough to post. Thank you all for welcoming me...I don't view abby as my adoptive daughter she is just my daughter... hugs to all!!!

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