Hi ladies, wondering if I can join you. I m/c on 4-16-09, this was my 3rd m/c. I am sorry for all your losses. This really sucks. I had a D&C scheduled but I started heavy bleeding the day before, and fully miscarried that night, so my RE cncelled the D&C. I think I would rather the D&C, I feel completely traumitized.
The Dr has no answers for me, DH & I both had genetic testing done, and we are fine. We saw heartbeats, and appropriate growth, then one day, no heartbeat.
So they want us to move on to IVF now, so they can watch the development from the very beginning and hopefully see what is going wrong, and implant only the healthy ones. So we will see how it goes.
I have a personal question...have any of you ever seen a councelor about your m/c's? My Re and NP suggested that becasue Ive had 3 that I should talk to a grief councelor before moving to IVF. I feel like I am doing fine, I just didn't know if they tell a lot of women to do this or if they think Im losing it, although sometimes I feel like it lol.
Anyway, Im glad I found you ladies, it is good to talk to people who have been through it.
__________________ Alisha (27) ~ Chad (30) TTC since 2003 3 angel babies: '07, '08, '09 IVF #1 BCP 8/21/09, Lupron, Gonal-F Egg retrieval 9/30/09 Severe OHSS Hospitalization 10/2-10/10 4 Snowbabies Hoping for FET in December To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
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