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Old 09-16-2005, 03:54 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Hi ladies,
I just have to wait for 2 weeks to see if I will MC naturally or if not then I will have my MC induced with some tablets so I dont have to do a D&C. We have had 3 ultrasounds one at 6wk, 7wk, & 8wk. At 6wk only the sac, 7wk a small fetal pole but not big enough to measure and at 8wk not defineable but they could see the yolk sac. My husband doesn't really believe the Drs even though there has been 3 drs. I feel bad because I just want to hurry up and end it while he wants to wait til wk 10 just in case the Drs are wrong. I have seen ultrasounds of pg at the different weeks and mine doesn't look clear and you can tell something is wrong.
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Old 09-16-2005, 04:15 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I am so sorry that you have to go through this. The waiting is the hardest. I am go through it all right now too. My heart is with you and your dh. (((hugs)))

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thanks. The hardest is DH doesn't really want to believe it. I accept it but he has hope and it hurts to know that he is going to be crushed when it eventually happens. Sorry to hear you are going thru this to.
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Old 09-16-2005, 05:50 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Naomi, I'm so sorry. I understand your hubby holding on to that hope, though. That was me during my pregnancy with Rivi.

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It is hard on the guys too. Some more than others. Your hubby is obviously a very loving person and wants a child very much. If there is any chance for this pregnancy, will they do one more u/s before giving you the tablets? It does seem that if it is gone, your body would do something in the next two weeks to make it obvious. I hope that part is as easy as possible for you.
Hang in there, and thanks for the update.
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I can sympathize with what you're going through. My dh and I had two normal u/s, but found out at wk 11 that the baby didn't have a heartbeat anymore. I'm waiting to m/c right now as well, and it's been a bumpy ride. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your dh. {{{{hugs}}}}
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Sorry to hear about your baby. This just happened to us 2 weeks ago. It sounds like our DH's are alike. I did the tablets 2 weeks ago and if you need to ask some questions, just let me know. I found a lot of ladies had done a D&C and I didn't know what to expect having the miscarriage at home. HUGS!!!
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I am so sorry for you and the others that are going through this may god bless you....tricia
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