A few months ago, I wrote a post
http://www.soulcysters.net/showthread.php?t=120222
that should take you there. It was regarding us telling our guys about our excess hair especially on our face. I said and I quote:
"I simply wish to not share the information with him. Pointing out something that I'm already sensitive about would be stupid in my opinion. I know not everyone feels this way, and those who told their significant others, good for you. I just don't feel I should. I like to accentuate the positive not point out to him my flaws. I mean there are lots of things us girls do behind close doors we don't tell our beaus about, what makes this one any different? Again, to me this falls into the same category as anything embarrassing us chickies have to do to fit into this world of ours.... Just like I wouldn't tell him, I had bad diarrhea last night or man I need to douche today or wow my period was so heavy I bled through my panties or anything like that. Some stuff is personal and maybe they don't want to hear about it. Men are a lot different than us and I think maybe they don't want us "sharing" every little thing with them. Just my opinion in my particular situation. And I know for a fact, if I told him, he'd be totally cool. He is soooo in love with me, but I just like to keep some things private. But thumbs up to you all who have an open dialogue with your men, more power to you! But for those of us who choose a little discretion, we are NOT liars"
I told him the other night about it. It was really hard and he swears he's never noticed anything. I'm very careful about it so I'm sure he hasn't. But now I know if he did see something, he'd know why. I was so stubborn when you girls told me I shouldn't be hiding it from him, you were right. This is not my fault and it shouldn't be a dirty little secret. Thank you for all for helping me see the light.
Ok systers, I was wrong you were right! 
