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Old 10-22-2005, 04:35 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default One Year Ago Today...

we lost our beautiful baby boy Aidan. It was definitely the worst day of my life. Today we went to visit the cemetery with some flowers and a little teddy bear and I will go through his memory box again and have a good cry.

Even though we are blessed with a healthy and wonderful baby girl, not a day has gone by in the last 365 that I have not thought about Aidan and missed him tremendously. I do find comfort in knowing that Devon will forever have her own little guardian angel.

Here is his website if anyone wants to check it out (there are pictures on it).

http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/a/aidanpt/
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Old 10-22-2005, 06:31 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Yvette- I'm so sorry for your loss!! Devon definitely has her own personal guardian angel! May you find peace and "Joy"!
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Old 10-23-2005, 02:18 AM   #3 (permalink)
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I remember seeing Aidan's web page many moons ago, and I totally agree that he was a beautiful baby. It is horribly sad that he isn't here with you and your new little girl. I'm sorry that these anniversaries are so tough.

Be gentle with yourselves during this time... ask for some help if you are exhausted. Grief and taking care of a two week old at the same time can be too much. (((Hugs)))
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Old 10-23-2005, 01:12 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Yvette- So sorry to hear about your loss . I did'nt go through anything like that but my sister did.... Went for a ultrasound and to her surprise the baby had died sometime the night before . They found out she had a bunch of health issues that they never knew about.... lupus for one, and something that goes hand in hand with that and apparently the disease was fighting the baby like a foreign object.... she has since had a child but with alot of difficulty...... And I understand your still very sad..... We felt it is so unfair, and to this day she cries and if u ask me i say cry it is good for u to let it out ! u will always cry for aidan and miss him... just as she does for her little Nina ! Life is unfair but all you can do is take it one day at a time ! Now i am pregnant with my second child and they found out i have IC... I had a cerclage placed 3 weeks ago.... and I am just praying that all goes well, i am 26 weeks to the day .......
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Yvette, I'm sorry that this is both a difficult and joyous time for you...that just doens't seem fair somehow. I checked out the webpage and pictures. Thank you for sharing the link with us.
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I am SO sorry...this is such a bittersweet time for you.

Little Aidan is a beautiful little boy. And Devon is lucky to have him as her Gaurdian Angel. And she's a beautiful little girl.

You're in my thoughts and prayers.

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