I am having the worst time. I am 6 months pregnant right now but I can not help but to think of the baby we would have been having this month. Dh got over the m/c really fast but I was a mess for a long while and now that the month has arrived I am having a lot of anxiety and extra mood swings. How do you cope?
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Karen (32) Dh (32)
Married 11+ years!
m/c June 2007
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It stinks to have grief and pregnancy hormones going on at the same time! (((Hugs))) Due dates are tough, and I hope this one passes and lets you feel better afterward. It's all about "should-have-beens" around these dates, and we just figure out a way to cope. Thank goodness I've had this forum to just talk it all out over the years!
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First pregnancy ended at 23 weeks due to incompetent cervix.
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This would have also been our month to have a baby. We are now 4 months pregnant again, and I think about it at times. I try to concentrate on our current pregnancy.
My SIL is going to have a baby in the next couple of weeks (we were going to be a few days apart). I am really excited for her, but having someone so close to us giving birth when I was supposed to is rough at times.
For me, I try to keep thinking that our little one went back home to heaven because they couldn't survive here and they paved the way for us to grow stronger together and have another baby. That is all I have to hold on to - and I hold on to it.
There is no right and wrong way to grieve. Do what you feel. I am thinking about you.
Sheri
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DD was born on July 19, 2008 weighing 9lbs, 12oz.
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My best friend had a couple of losses. Every due date, she would be really down. And it is completely understandable. You need to mourn for your loss in your own way. I remember how hard it was for her, and my heart goes out to you.
Karen - im so sorry for your loss - i lost my babies in June too. I always think of them - and think that God blessed me with the 3 that im having now giving me my 2 back and a extra one. This month is definatley hard - i was due this Sat (16th) I took all the u/s pics i had and made a scrapbook that i can look at anytime.
* Happy Birthday** Feb babies - we miss you
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Noel Brynn 1 lb 5 oz
Kendall Lynn 1 lb 2 oz
Evelyn Marie 1 lb 1 oz RIP 4/22/08
Evelyn Marie died 13 short days after birth to save her sisters.
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Its a Girl!!!- DUE FEB 2,2010
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I am so sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is, I have 4 due dates that I still mourn. I can't say it gets any easier, I still miss my angels (even though I have 2 with me here on earth I still have 4 in heaven who I miss very much).
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I would've been due this month as well and it's been hard. I'm not pregnant yet and I'm having to work hard to get there again but, I know when it happens it's all going to be worth it.
I was due this month too. Every day I think about what I would be doing to prepare for the arrival of my little Emmanuella. I feel sad too because I thought I would be pg again by now but I am not. I'm getting little diapers and formula samples in the mail, and letters that talk about welcoming a new baby. It's hard.
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PCOS and MF
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Our baby was due this month (Feb 2008) 
