Sorry this took so long for me to see. I haven't been on for a few days.
Hum. . . I never really thought about that. We started trying again, after Noah, in Jan of last year. I was pg in Feb, and had my D&C in April. Then I was pg again in June and m/c a week later.
I guess it is jsut something that I really really wanted. Stupid answer, I know. Trying again just seemed to help me deal, or cope, with the pain. It kept my mind occupied. With the first loss, Alex, I was seeing my ob. I lost total confidence in her since she had me on a "candy" cycle of Clomid. She also told me that I could try again for 3 months. I just couldn't imagine waiting that long. So I made an appt with my RE. Someone I completely trust. he let me try again the next cycel. unfort. That is when I lost Sydney. He switched me from Clomid to Letrazole, and I guess that is why I have been able to carry this one so long. Clomid just seemed to give me weak eggs.
I don't know if I am answering your question or not.
Basically I wouldn't go for it again unless I felt it was right. Hopefully you have a dh that will understand that. I think in my situation that I was more ready than dh was, but we made a joint decision to move on with TTC.
The due dates of both babies have passed during this pregnancy, they were really hard. But I made it through with lots of support from othe cysters that were pg again after their losses. I also knew that if I hadn't lost those babies, then I wouldn't be pg with this one.
I pray for you that you are able to make a decision that you are comfortable with. Big Hugs. | 
