PCOS and dating

Cmj · 04-27-2008, 06:31 AM

Hey girls!!!
I was just wondering how you Teens feel about dating and PCOS?

Im completely hopeless and I basically put it mostly down to the dreaded PCOS! I dont let myself get too close to guys because I am so embarrassed about my weight and all the PCOS extras, but especially the HAIR!!!
PLEASE PLEASE help or share your tips LOL!!!
Thanks

lizzy12 · 04-30-2008, 09:55 PM

i actually dont date because it is discourged by church leaders to date befire age of 16 so its not a problem for me.

dreamer5545 · 05-01-2008, 12:02 PM

I think that having PCOS and dating is very interesting. There are alot of mixed feeling about it. I personally have told my ex about it and he told me that he didnt care and it didnt matter because he loved me anyway. The guy that I am dating now seems to be ok with it. We are both really honest with eachother and I dont feel uncomfortable about talking to him about it. When it comes to dating and PCOS I think that its all about comfort and when you as a cyster feel good enough to tell someone you like about it. It depends on how they take it but I dont think anyone should feel bad about themselves because they have PCOS.

stacy_xo · 05-03-2008, 12:28 PM

cmj, I know exactly how you feel. PCOS has caused me to be overweight and have some hair problems, but the right guy won't mind that.
I met my bf off of the internet and made sure he knew ASAP about my PCOS, its better to get it out there right away. You don't have to tell him about the hair, just keep waxing or plucking it. As for the weight, most guys don't mind some junk.
Just be yourself and you can find mr right.

SunsetMuse · 05-08-2008, 11:07 PM

I'll let you know when I *can* find a date rofl :T

stacy_xo · 05-10-2008, 12:36 PM

Aawww Sunset I know how you feel. For years I felt like no guy would date me, probably cause it was true! :| I did not take care of myself at all.

Internet is a great alternative to finding real partners and dates. I didn't put up a pic and then those who choose to contact you aren't so absorbed with physical appearances.

SN3W14 · 05-11-2008, 05:56 PM

I am not a "teen" anymore but I am still young enough to relate and encourage you ladies. When I was under the age of 16 I had never dated a guy mainly because I was young but also because I was more "tomboy". Anyways to make a long story short I finally have had a "SERIOUS" relationship and my boyfriend (at the time) didn't care about my facial hair nor my weight.
I want to encourage you all and tell you all that you have to LOVE and accept yourself FIRST before anyone else will. Be proud of who you are and what you look like. The men will come eventually. I promise you!!!

MAFlowers · 05-15-2008, 11:17 PM

I have no problem getting close to guys, but guys don't really get close to me, haha. As Sunset said, I, too, cannot get a date.

04-27-2008, 06:31 AM	#1 (permalink)
Cmj Registered User Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 16 Points: 467.93 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 467.93 Donate	PCOS and dating Hey girls!!! I was just wondering how you Teens feel about dating and PCOS? Im completely hopeless and I basically put it mostly down to the dreaded PCOS! I dont let myself get too close to guys because I am so embarrassed about my weight and all the PCOS extras, but especially the HAIR!!! PLEASE PLEASE help or share your tips LOL!!! Thanks

05-01-2008, 12:02 PM	#3 (permalink)
dreamer5545 Me Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Florida Posts: 29 My Mood: Points: 2,977.40 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 2,977.40 Donate	dating and PCOS I think that having PCOS and dating is very interesting. There are alot of mixed feeling about it. I personally have told my ex about it and he told me that he didnt care and it didnt matter because he loved me anyway. The guy that I am dating now seems to be ok with it. We are both really honest with eachother and I dont feel uncomfortable about talking to him about it. When it comes to dating and PCOS I think that its all about comfort and when you as a cyster feel good enough to tell someone you like about it. It depends on how they take it but I dont think anyone should feel bad about themselves because they have PCOS. __________________ " Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate but that we are powerful beyond measure"

05-03-2008, 12:28 PM	#4 (permalink)
stacy_xo Learning to cope... Join Date: May 2008 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 59 My Mood: Points: 3,002.81 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 3,002.81 Donate	cmj, I know exactly how you feel. PCOS has caused me to be overweight and have some hair problems, but the right guy won't mind that. I met my bf off of the internet and made sure he knew ASAP about my PCOS, its better to get it out there right away. You don't have to tell him about the hair, just keep waxing or plucking it. As for the weight, most guys don't mind some junk. Just be yourself and you can find mr right. __________________ My scars remind me that the past is real... Dx: Dec 1, 2005 Meds: Diane-35 Trying to lose weight. Start May 6, 2008 at 223 pounds.

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SunsetMuse Tired Cyster Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Millville NJ Posts: 72 My Mood: Points: 889.81 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 889.81 Donate	I'll let you know when I can find a date rofl :T __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. Kelly To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. I love to talk to anyone. If you have any questions or just want someone to talk with IM me on AIM at MutableParadox To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

05-10-2008, 12:36 PM	#6 (permalink)
stacy_xo Learning to cope... Join Date: May 2008 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 59 My Mood: Points: 3,002.81 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 3,002.81 Donate	Aawww Sunset I know how you feel. For years I felt like no guy would date me, probably cause it was true! :\| I did not take care of myself at all. Internet is a great alternative to finding real partners and dates. I didn't put up a pic and then those who choose to contact you aren't so absorbed with physical appearances. __________________ My scars remind me that the past is real... Dx: Dec 1, 2005 Meds: Diane-35 Trying to lose weight. Start May 6, 2008 at 223 pounds.

04-30-2008, 09:55 PM	#2 (permalink)
lizzy12 Registered User Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 9 My Mood: Points: 208.38 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 208.38 Donate	i actually dont date because it is discourged by church leaders to date befire age of 16 so its not a problem for me.

05-11-2008, 05:56 PM	#7 (permalink)
SN3W14 Waiting for my turn...... Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Atlanta, Georgia Posts: 584 My Mood: Points: 14,971.37 Bank: 15,073.83 Total Points: 30,045.19 Donate	I am not a "teen" anymore but I am still young enough to relate and encourage you ladies. When I was under the age of 16 I had never dated a guy mainly because I was young but also because I was more "tomboy". Anyways to make a long story short I finally have had a "SERIOUS" relationship and my boyfriend (at the time) didn't care about my facial hair nor my weight. I want to encourage you all and tell you all that you have to LOVE and accept yourself FIRST before anyone else will. Be proud of who you are and what you look like. The men will come eventually. I promise you!!! __________________ P.R.A.Y.E.R. (Positive Reassuring Action Yeilding Eternal Results) Shauna (22) Meds: Metformin-1000mg Provera (to start cycles) To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

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MAFlowers Registered User Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 99 My Mood: Points: 1,227.40 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 1,227.40 Donate	I have no problem getting close to guys, but guys don't really get close to me, haha. As Sunset said, I, too, cannot get a date. __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. Miranda To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. Medications: Metformin Yasmin Spiro

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