I have the same issues. I too am searching for answers. I have a strong feeling that high male hormone levels have something to do with the quality of our eggs. That's my theory on what's happening to me. I haven't gotten a Dr. to agree with that yet though.
In another thread a cyster gave me some info that sounds promising. Here is a link to my thread
Have You Suffered More Than One Miscarriage
Here is a copy of the post I'm speaking of:
Hi Phoenix ,
*Warning this is a long story*
I was prescribed Dexamethasone & Met after being diagnosed with PCOS in January of '05 following my first miscarriage in late December '04 (2 days before Christmas).
After my first miscarriage I found out through blood tests about my elevated Testosterone/DHEAS levels, so my RE prescribed the Dex. In his opinion the only way I could A.) Get pregnant and B.) Stay pregnant was if I agressively worked at lowering my male hormone levels with something other than just met.
So, in February of '05 I got pregnant again! But I miscarried again in April. At this point I was devestated & I had seriously gave up hopes of ever carrying a baby to term. But, my doctor explained it too me this way; My male hormone levels had been elevated for probably years prior to my PCOS diagnoses. And, those elevated levels had MORE than likely affected the quality of my eggs & also wrecked havoc with the hormones needed to maintain a healthy pregnancy. So, he advised me to throw clomid in the mix with the Dexamethasone. Clomid with Dex would give me a stronger ovulation & improve my chances of not just conception but having the pregnancy progress normally.
Okay, so at this point honestly I didn't really believe him my 2 losses so close together made me lose all faith in not only myself but medical science. I figured nobody & nothing could help me. But, after much prayer & a "reluctant" refusal to give up, I decided to try just one last time. So, I started the clomid & Dex combination in May of '05 (conceived) & I delivered healthy boy/girl twins on January 27th of this year. However, I had to continue Dex until my 20th week of pregnancy, to avoid miscarriage...I truly believe it made all the difference in the early months!
Side effects of Dex: Absolutely NONE! No dreaded weight gain, no high blood pressure, nothing! I weaned off of it over a 3 week span after my 20th week of pregnancy. My male hormone levels were improved within 1 month of starting the regime!
With that said I just want to say don't EVER give up hope. Not only did I have the high testosterone issues but during the pregnancy I battled IC. I was positive I'd never make it, a year ago this month I almost threw in the towel, not knowing what the future had in store. Believe me I know the struggle to make it there "mentally" and get to the point of trying again.
I wish you all the blessings in the world!
I hope that helps!