Please say a prayer!!

Stacie M · 10-14-2002, 03:49 AM

We need to prayer for my DH's cousin. She and her husband have one daughter who is absolutely perfect and is 6. Several years ago they had a vasectomy. Over the last few years (after lots of prayer) they decided to have it reversed and try for another baby. Her husband had the reversal over a year ago. The first analysis was ZERO sperm. Then it went to 250,000. They just got the results back and the analysis is back to ZERO.

I know that it may be selfish to prayer for a child when you already have one, but right now they are both feeling VERY LOW. She is a devoted Christian and her faith is being tried to the max. Her poor little girl has no idea what is going on and prays for a baby brother or sister every night !!

I feel that we just need to say a prayer that she find understanding and that Gods will will be evident. At this point she just does not know what path to go down. They could do donor, another reversal, wait, give up, etc. But it is a TOUGH decision. Not to mention the money they spent on the first reversal.

Please just say a quick prayer for them. I know that we PCOS'ers are in a different situation, but anytime a woman is not able to conceive can be a trying one (esp. when everyone asks when you are going to have one/another)!!

Thanks cysters!
StaciieM

KlassicalKat · 10-14-2002, 05:06 AM

I will be glad to say a prayer for your DH's cousin. I hope that all their baby dreams come true for them. I understand that this longing is real and valid, no matter what the circumstances.

But I do pray, too, that they have peace if they only have one child. I wanted two children, but have one son, but I am at total peace and contentment with one. It is not the end of the world to have only one child. Both of my parents were only children and they are (and were, in the case of my deceased mom) wonderful people.

Kathryn

Stacie M · 10-14-2002, 12:44 PM

Thanks KK!

I know what you mean. I hope that they find peace in WHATEVER happens. I know she understands that God has a plan, but I think it is just not evident to her now what it is...which is so frustrating to them.

Thanks!
StaciieM

ysmith · 10-14-2002, 08:56 PM

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I will pray for you DH's Cousin also. There is power in prayer.

Yolanda · 10-15-2002, 03:49 PM

Aw, I don't think it's selfish at all. I have two kids but want another very badly. I can't have anymore. I'll pray for your cousin that she finds peace with what ever God has in store for her. God bless!

Lisa75 · 10-15-2002, 05:07 PM

The lord knows all about it, I will be praying....