So my ex (who has PCOS) has this lovely path of black hair from above her navel to her private area. It's pretty thick and seems to grow a little every year. We always called it a "pleasure trail" because it leads to a major source of her pleasure and it's a sign of sensuality. Anyway, she's pretty confident and doesn't mind wearing belly shirts, bikini, etc. when it's warm. She just lets it grow and show, she says, because she's a sexual creature like every other woman, so why hide it?
She told me the other day her friends are giving her trouble, trying to make her shave/wax it since it's so prominent. She wants to keep it. What do you all think?
So my ex (who has PCOS) has this lovely path of black hair from above her navel to her private area. It's pretty thick and seems to grow a little every year. We always called it a "pleasure trail" because it leads to a major source of her pleasure and it's a sign of sensuality. Anyway, she's pretty confident and doesn't mind wearing belly shirts, bikini, etc. when it's warm. She just lets it grow and show, she says, because she's a sexual creature like every other woman, so why hide it?
She told me the other day her friends are giving her trouble, trying to make her shave/wax it since it's so prominent. She wants to keep it. What do you all think?
I know quite a few beautiful and confident girls with lots of fuzz. My friend from Fuji says she leaves her fuzzy upper lip because lots of women from her heritage have it but she shaves her stomach. I had another friend with dark hair all over who shows off her stomach and cleavage where you can see the fuzz. I have friends from Pakistan who have fuzz along the sides of their face and upper lip and we compete to see who has the best mustache. Not all hair is because of androgens. Before my hair started getting really thick I learned to embrase it as part of my family's background just like I've embrased my big nose. Although it still made me a little insecure because I am just an insecure person. Some people are just made that way and they have the right to embrase it. I know quite a few guys who like the pleasure trail.
Last edited by SianCat; 12-17-2006 at 05:55 PM.
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I am having my excess hair removed bc I have a hard time feeling "female" looking so much like a man in the hair dept. If my chest wasn't a DD I think some would think I was a guy! (probably not really but that is how I feel) Whatever makes her happy. They probably think it is gross to see or something. It is admirable that you accept her for who she is. Is she forever going to be your ex or are you together again?
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Thanks for your replies. I shall let her know she has support. No, I don't anticipate resuming our romance. We dated for many years (she was the first woman I loved) but we grew in different directions. While our intimacy was deeply charged, other frictions were extant. We remain close friends, and she is getting married next summer. Wow, that dates me. Anyway, thanks for your consideration. I imagine she'll always hold a special place in my heart.
"pleasure trail" 
Anyway, she's pretty confident and doesn't mind wearing belly shirts, bikini, etc. when it's warm. She just lets it grow and show, she says, because she's a sexual creature like every other woman, so why hide it?
